"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I can't bring myself to do so.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Dude, i can barely bring my self to finger a hair *****. I feel your pain.
 

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Then don't. Tell her to go bald. If she doesn't, ditch her.
 

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She told me she wouldn't, because it's uncomfortable.

Well, one of us is gonna have to suffer I guess. -_-
 

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Yuma said:
She told me she wouldn't, because it's uncomfortable.

Well, one of us is gonna have to suffer I guess. -_-
Does this mean you sport a bald look yourself?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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No, sir.

But, maybe if I do it, she'll get the hint and follow suit.
 

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Yuma said:
No, sir.

But, maybe if I do it, she'll get the hint and follow suit.
I think so. Because then she can't come at you with a "well you're going au naturel!" Your request will be take more seriously.

And it's madam.
 

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I dated a girl once who told me that women in general prefer a clean shaven man.

True or false, since apparently you're a madam. :D
 

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Does she at least trim it short? That can be at least manageable over a big tangle of pubes.
 

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Yuma said:
I dated a girl once who told me that women in general prefer a clean shaven man.

True or false, since apparently you're a madam. :D
Personally, I don't like a man who is "clean shaven" where his nether regions are concerned. I find it a bit too metro for my liking. A man should look like a man, not a Ken doll.

A little trimming here and there of course is welcome. It's about using your judgment and taking just enough off so you keep it tidy.

This of course is my preference. Some women do like the bald look on men. Also, the more hair you remove, the bigger your little man appears...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I don't like them bald. Trimmed and tidy is fine by me.
 

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I don't see how it's uncomfortable for any more than a week...Tell her it looks nicer bald/trimmed and is easier to go down on...and offer to do yours
 

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I shave everything because I like having everything licked.

I asked a girl once when I was younger if she liked a shaved guy.

She said "when I'm sucking a guys balls I don't want hair up my nose". That sold it for me.

I want it to be a pleasant experience for the woman too. She doesn't have to worry about getting tangled in a jungle mess. She doesn't have to worry about hair odor. Makes me feel...clean also. :D

I LOVE it when a girl shaves EVERYTHING. I like having my lips around smooth soft skin when I'm going down on a girl. Making out with a freshly shaved vagina is one of the more exquisite little pleasures in life . Yes.


I absolutely will NOT go down on a hair vagina. If she BEGS for it or if it's a really heated moment I will though. How can you deny when she's so hot and heavy?
 

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ThunderMaverick said:
I shave everything because I like having everything licked.

I asked a girl once when I was younger if she liked a shaved guy.

She said "when I'm sucking a guys balls I don't want hair up my nose". That sold it for me.
This made sense to me too, so I tried it once. Apparently, I'm not doing something right because I scratched like I had the crabs for several weeks later. I swore to myself I'd never torture myself like that ever again!
 

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I trim using a hair shaver. However I don't have a huge problem with hairy vaginas as I'm a little older and back in the day, women rarely shaved. However she probably doesn't like the shaved feel, so just ask her to trim.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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You know why guys shave their junk, right? It makes it look bigger. :D

In all seriousness, she has to at least trim it up and keep things in line. That is just expected in this day and age.

ThunderMaverick said:
I LOVE it when a girl shaves EVERYTHING. I like having my lips around smooth soft skin when I'm going down on a girl. Making out with a freshly shaved vagina is one of the more exquisite little pleasures in life . Yes.
Ahhhh. Good times.....
 

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You know, Aza, for the first few months of shaving my "whoo haa" it itched like hell when the hairs grew back.

Now my skin doesn't get irritated or bothered at all. Interesting point you brought up. I just thought about it now.

Keep at it. Maybe you'll get use to it like I did.:D
 

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azanon said:
This made sense to me too, so I tried it once. Apparently, I'm not doing something right because I scratched like I had the crabs for several weeks later. I swore to myself I'd never torture myself like that ever again!
The itching might be because of razor burn and/or ingrown hairs. You need to exfoliate to keep that stuff under control.

Do you shave or wax?
 

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Magma said:
In all seriousness, she has to at least trim it up and keep things in line. That is just expected in this day and age.



Ahhhh. Good times.....

Mmm. Like a fresh hot, chocolate chip cookie straight out the oven. I love the smooth part of the lower pelvic area just above a girl's cl!t. When they shave and you slowly tease them around that part (y'know just grazing your lips up and down on it) it drives them crazy.
 

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Purple-Haze said:
The itching might be because of razor burn and/or ingrown hairs. You need to exfoliate to keep that stuff under control.

Do you shave or wax?
Exfoliate?! Down there?? He probably shaves. I use to have the same problem.

My skin just got use to it. He probably doesn't do it enough.

If my skin got dry or irritated I would just put a few dabbles of cocoa butter on it.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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