Yuma
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I can't bring myself to do so.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Eating a hairy pvssy...
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Yuma
Don Juan
She told me she wouldn't, because it's uncomfortable.
Well, one of us is gonna have to suffer I guess. -_-
Well, one of us is gonna have to suffer I guess. -_-
Purple-Haze
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Does this mean you sport a bald look yourself?Yuma said:
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Yuma
Don Juan
No, sir.
But, maybe if I do it, she'll get the hint and follow suit.
But, maybe if I do it, she'll get the hint and follow suit.
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I think so. Because then she can't come at you with a "well you're going au naturel!" Your request will be take more seriously.Yuma said:
And it's madam.
Yuma
Don Juan
I dated a girl once who told me that women in general prefer a clean shaven man.
True or false, since apparently you're a madam.
True or false, since apparently you're a madam.
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Does she at least trim it short? That can be at least manageable over a big tangle of pubes.
Purple-Haze
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Personally, I don't like a man who is "clean shaven" where his nether regions are concerned. I find it a bit too metro for my liking. A man should look like a man, not a Ken doll.Yuma said:I dated a girl once who told me that women in general prefer a clean shaven man.
True or false, since apparently you're a madam.
A little trimming here and there of course is welcome. It's about using your judgment and taking just enough off so you keep it tidy.
This of course is my preference. Some women do like the bald look on men. Also, the more hair you remove, the bigger your little man appears...
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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I shave everything because I like having everything licked.
I asked a girl once when I was younger if she liked a shaved guy.
She said "when I'm sucking a guys balls I don't want hair up my nose". That sold it for me.
I want it to be a pleasant experience for the woman too. She doesn't have to worry about getting tangled in a jungle mess. She doesn't have to worry about hair odor. Makes me feel...clean also.
I LOVE it when a girl shaves EVERYTHING. I like having my lips around smooth soft skin when I'm going down on a girl. Making out with a freshly shaved vagina is one of the more exquisite little pleasures in life . Yes.
I absolutely will NOT go down on a hair vagina. If she BEGS for it or if it's a really heated moment I will though. How can you deny when she's so hot and heavy?
I asked a girl once when I was younger if she liked a shaved guy.
She said "when I'm sucking a guys balls I don't want hair up my nose". That sold it for me.
I want it to be a pleasant experience for the woman too. She doesn't have to worry about getting tangled in a jungle mess. She doesn't have to worry about hair odor. Makes me feel...clean also.
I LOVE it when a girl shaves EVERYTHING. I like having my lips around smooth soft skin when I'm going down on a girl. Making out with a freshly shaved vagina is one of the more exquisite little pleasures in life . Yes.
I absolutely will NOT go down on a hair vagina. If she BEGS for it or if it's a really heated moment I will though. How can you deny when she's so hot and heavy?
This made sense to me too, so I tried it once. Apparently, I'm not doing something right because I scratched like I had the crabs for several weeks later. I swore to myself I'd never torture myself like that ever again!ThunderMaverick said:
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I trim using a hair shaver. However I don't have a huge problem with hairy vaginas as I'm a little older and back in the day, women rarely shaved. However she probably doesn't like the shaved feel, so just ask her to trim.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Magma
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You know why guys shave their junk, right? It makes it look bigger.
In all seriousness, she has to at least trim it up and keep things in line. That is just expected in this day and age.
In all seriousness, she has to at least trim it up and keep things in line. That is just expected in this day and age.
Ahhhh. Good times.....ThunderMaverick said:
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You know, Aza, for the first few months of shaving my "whoo haa" it itched like hell when the hairs grew back.
Now my skin doesn't get irritated or bothered at all. Interesting point you brought up. I just thought about it now.
Keep at it. Maybe you'll get use to it like I did.
Now my skin doesn't get irritated or bothered at all. Interesting point you brought up. I just thought about it now.
Keep at it. Maybe you'll get use to it like I did.
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The itching might be because of razor burn and/or ingrown hairs. You need to exfoliate to keep that stuff under control.azanon said:
Do you shave or wax?
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Magma said:
Mmm. Like a fresh hot, chocolate chip cookie straight out the oven. I love the smooth part of the lower pelvic area just above a girl's cl!t. When they shave and you slowly tease them around that part (y'know just grazing your lips up and down on it) it drives them crazy.
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Exfoliate?! Down there?? He probably shaves. I use to have the same problem.Purple-Haze said:
My skin just got use to it. He probably doesn't do it enough.
If my skin got dry or irritated I would just put a few dabbles of cocoa butter on it.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.