Yuma
Don Juan
I can't bring myself to do so.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Does this mean you sport a bald look yourself?Yuma said:She told me she wouldn't, because it's uncomfortable.
Well, one of us is gonna have to suffer I guess. -_-
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I think so. Because then she can't come at you with a "well you're going au naturel!" Your request will be take more seriously.Yuma said:No, sir.
But, maybe if I do it, she'll get the hint and follow suit.
Personally, I don't like a man who is "clean shaven" where his nether regions are concerned. I find it a bit too metro for my liking. A man should look like a man, not a Ken doll.Yuma said:I dated a girl once who told me that women in general prefer a clean shaven man.
True or false, since apparently you're a madam.![]()
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
This made sense to me too, so I tried it once. Apparently, I'm not doing something right because I scratched like I had the crabs for several weeks later. I swore to myself I'd never torture myself like that ever again!ThunderMaverick said:I shave everything because I like having everything licked.
I asked a girl once when I was younger if she liked a shaved guy.
She said "when I'm sucking a guys balls I don't want hair up my nose". That sold it for me.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Ahhhh. Good times.....ThunderMaverick said:I LOVE it when a girl shaves EVERYTHING. I like having my lips around smooth soft skin when I'm going down on a girl. Making out with a freshly shaved vagina is one of the more exquisite little pleasures in life . Yes.
The itching might be because of razor burn and/or ingrown hairs. You need to exfoliate to keep that stuff under control.azanon said:This made sense to me too, so I tried it once. Apparently, I'm not doing something right because I scratched like I had the crabs for several weeks later. I swore to myself I'd never torture myself like that ever again!
Magma said:In all seriousness, she has to at least trim it up and keep things in line. That is just expected in this day and age.
Ahhhh. Good times.....
Exfoliate?! Down there?? He probably shaves. I use to have the same problem.Purple-Haze said:The itching might be because of razor burn and/or ingrown hairs. You need to exfoliate to keep that stuff under control.
Do you shave or wax?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.