"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Do you think this pic will do fine on tinder
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Also, "cute" selfies? C'mon dude, you're a man...not a hipster vegan metrosexual!
Unless you're just ripped to shreds I doubt you'll get much attention from selfies based off my experience. Though having said that, I live in the middle of "F*cking Nowhere, Population 10" atm so that might have something to do with the dodgy Tinder results rather than the selfies.
R.U.G.
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In all seriousness, if you want the best chances on tinder for STDs, I mean women, you need professional photos. They know the best light and ways to take the best pics of you in the best light. Check Yelp for some good offers for photographers in your area.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I was on tinder for two years and never got a match. I don’t know if it’s because of my race, my body type, my facial features, or all of the above. No matter what photos I take, I’m super ugly to women online.
In real life I have a pretty decent success rate.
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That may be the problem. If you are looking to date guys, that's fine, but I think this guy is attractive to women. Try one of the guys for guys apps if that's what you are after. ;'p
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Didn't I type something similar?
Serenity
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Yeah, kinda. Don't necessarily need professional photos, but at least have someone else take them and give at least some thought about lighting and setting.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Trust when I say, pro photos for 150 - 200 are well worth it. If you are in a big city, even more important. This bro looks like Toby McGuire. He'll get more tail than a toilet seat with pro pics.
Serenity
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I'm not talking against you, I'm just offering the alternative for the semi-lazy.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.