“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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sosousage

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Yo lemme know what you think about this cute selfie




took it when was bored. one problem is that i already have shirtless pic on tinder and its rocking so if i put 2 shirtless it may be weird

what u think
 

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If I have selfies (much less shirtless ones) I get no matches whatsoever all of a sudden. Girls are allergic to them. At the very least get rid of the Snapchat icons or whatever that is at the top.

Also, "cute" selfies? C'mon dude, you're a man...not a hipster vegan metrosexual!

Unless you're just ripped to shreds I doubt you'll get much attention from selfies based off my experience. Though having said that, I live in the middle of "F*cking Nowhere, Population 10" atm so that might have something to do with the dodgy Tinder results rather than the selfies.
 

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Never knew Toby McGuire was a member at SS. Even Celebs use SS. Hehehe.

In all seriousness, if you want the best chances on tinder for STDs, I mean women, you need professional photos. They know the best light and ways to take the best pics of you in the best light. Check Yelp for some good offers for photographers in your area.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I want guys who are successful on OLD to post pics of themselves.

I was on tinder for two years and never got a match. I don’t know if it’s because of my race, my body type, my facial features, or all of the above. No matter what photos I take, I’m super ugly to women online.

In real life I have a pretty decent success rate.
 

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I want guys who are successful on OLD to post pics of themselves.
That may be the problem. If you are looking to date guys, that's fine, but I think this guy is attractive to women. Try one of the guys for guys apps if that's what you are after. ;'p
 

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The best pictures are the ones visibly taken by someone other than yourself, it won't look like you're an asocial weirdo.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Yeah, kinda. Don't necessarily need professional photos, but at least have someone else take them and give at least some thought about lighting and setting.
Trust when I say, pro photos for 150 - 200 are well worth it. If you are in a big city, even more important. This bro looks like Toby McGuire. He'll get more tail than a toilet seat with pro pics.
 
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Trust when I say, pro photos for 150 - 200 are well worth it. If you are in a big city, even more important. This bro looks like Toby McGuire. He'll get more tail than a toilet seat with pro pics.
I'm not talking against you, I'm just offering the alternative for the semi-lazy.
 

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A fat girl wud say this picture is too nerdy = too needy = unattractive but he's exactly what I need.

Your mommy wud say this picture is cute.

A cute girl wud say.............................. (swipe next)
 

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Probably not.
 

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I clean up with online dating and I have never taken one selfie. To me, men taking selfies comes off as weird and something only women do. Selfies just comes off as attention seeking and neediness.
 
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