"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Do you think this pic will do fine on tinder

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Yo lemme know what you think about this cute selfie




took it when was bored. one problem is that i already have shirtless pic on tinder and its rocking so if i put 2 shirtless it may be weird

what u think
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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If I have selfies (much less shirtless ones) I get no matches whatsoever all of a sudden. Girls are allergic to them. At the very least get rid of the Snapchat icons or whatever that is at the top.

Also, "cute" selfies? C'mon dude, you're a man...not a hipster vegan metrosexual!

Unless you're just ripped to shreds I doubt you'll get much attention from selfies based off my experience. Though having said that, I live in the middle of "F*cking Nowhere, Population 10" atm so that might have something to do with the dodgy Tinder results rather than the selfies.
 

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Never knew Toby McGuire was a member at SS. Even Celebs use SS. Hehehe.

In all seriousness, if you want the best chances on tinder for STDs, I mean women, you need professional photos. They know the best light and ways to take the best pics of you in the best light. Check Yelp for some good offers for photographers in your area.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I want guys who are successful on OLD to post pics of themselves.

I was on tinder for two years and never got a match. I don’t know if it’s because of my race, my body type, my facial features, or all of the above. No matter what photos I take, I’m super ugly to women online.

In real life I have a pretty decent success rate.
 

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I want guys who are successful on OLD to post pics of themselves.
That may be the problem. If you are looking to date guys, that's fine, but I think this guy is attractive to women. Try one of the guys for guys apps if that's what you are after. ;'p
 

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The best pictures are the ones visibly taken by someone other than yourself, it won't look like you're an asocial weirdo.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Yeah, kinda. Don't necessarily need professional photos, but at least have someone else take them and give at least some thought about lighting and setting.
Trust when I say, pro photos for 150 - 200 are well worth it. If you are in a big city, even more important. This bro looks like Toby McGuire. He'll get more tail than a toilet seat with pro pics.
 
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Trust when I say, pro photos for 150 - 200 are well worth it. If you are in a big city, even more important. This bro looks like Toby McGuire. He'll get more tail than a toilet seat with pro pics.
I'm not talking against you, I'm just offering the alternative for the semi-lazy.
 

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A fat girl wud say this picture is too nerdy = too needy = unattractive but he's exactly what I need.

Your mommy wud say this picture is cute.

A cute girl wud say.............................. (swipe next)
 

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Probably not.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I clean up with online dating and I have never taken one selfie. To me, men taking selfies comes off as weird and something only women do. Selfies just comes off as attention seeking and neediness.
 
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