You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
I could feel the awkward just by watching this video. I'm not surprised he didn't get maced, he wasn't being aggressive enough for that.
Here is a breakdown of subcommunication:
Saying "I like you" is a bad opener, he has no basis to judge that. He's seen her walking for a couple of seconds, so it's plain obvious to any women that he's desperate and say it to get something from them. It's certainly not like saying "I like you" because he knows her and values her personality.
It's even worse to say "I'm attracted to you" because that attraction is purely superficial, it's all he can know after watching a woman walk for a few seconds. It's shows he has poor standards, is naive and seemingly a pretty face and body is enough. What about the person inside the body? Obviously not that important to him.
Asking "do you like me?" reveals his lack of confidence, inability to read cues and of course his desperation. Just like when saying "I like you" he has no basis to say that, neither do women he just met. They can't answer the question because they can't know based on a few seconds of interaction. This guy seems to think attraction is just about looks and completely neglects personality, something that takes a long time to judge.
He doesn't know how to continue a conversation in the rare cases he gets them talking. When he does get them talking he also becomes surprised women talk to him and tell them that. Basically telling women he's not good with women and countless other women don't want him. It's like trying to sell a product saying "wow you want to buy this, nobody else did", I know I would change my mind if I heard that.
That's disgusting, obviously you don't care about the person inside, you're superficial. Judging from how you attack my post in such a retarded way, there's not much of a person left in you to care about. You're an empty shell, you're a piece of meat, you're a nobody.Dude....who cares about the person inside the body. It was a horrible pick up attempt, but let's leave the GAY **** out.
I know within 2 seconds if I want to bang a chick or not.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Nah, he's gay as ****...I'm on to his agendaGuys, let's simmer down so we can keep the thread open.
Zinc, his post was legit. He was saying how can he "like" a woman when he has no idea who she really is. Your response was overly aggressive imo.
You've both had your say so let's move on.