"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Do you think this guy's street approach game is creepy?

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my opinion: I'm amazed that he didn't get maced! :eek:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I scanned through a couple of his videos. He seems to have issues. He talks about depression and about getting kicked out of stores for dancing around. He has several videos with the subject that white rice causes depression.
 

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I could feel the awkward just by watching this video. I'm not surprised he didn't get maced, he wasn't being aggressive enough for that.

Here is a breakdown of subcommunication:
Saying "I like you" is a bad opener, he has no basis to judge that. He's seen her walking for a couple of seconds, so it's plain obvious to any women that he's desperate and say it to get something from them. It's certainly not like saying "I like you" because he knows her and values her personality.
It's even worse to say "I'm attracted to you" because that attraction is purely superficial, it's all he can know after watching a woman walk for a few seconds. It's shows he has poor standards, is naive and seemingly a pretty face and body is enough. What about the person inside the body? Obviously not that important to him.
Asking "do you like me?" reveals his lack of confidence, inability to read cues and of course his desperation. Just like when saying "I like you" he has no basis to say that, neither do women he just met. They can't answer the question because they can't know based on a few seconds of interaction. This guy seems to think attraction is just about looks and completely neglects personality, something that takes a long time to judge.

He doesn't know how to continue a conversation in the rare cases he gets them talking. When he does get them talking he also becomes surprised women talk to him and tell them that. Basically telling women he's not good with women and countless other women don't want him. It's like trying to sell a product saying "wow you want to buy this, nobody else did", I know I would change my mind if I heard that.
 

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Kinda reminds the main character of mr robot, same social skills.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I could feel the awkward just by watching this video. I'm not surprised he didn't get maced, he wasn't being aggressive enough for that.

Here is a breakdown of subcommunication:
Saying "I like you" is a bad opener, he has no basis to judge that. He's seen her walking for a couple of seconds, so it's plain obvious to any women that he's desperate and say it to get something from them. It's certainly not like saying "I like you" because he knows her and values her personality.
It's even worse to say "I'm attracted to you" because that attraction is purely superficial, it's all he can know after watching a woman walk for a few seconds. It's shows he has poor standards, is naive and seemingly a pretty face and body is enough. What about the person inside the body? Obviously not that important to him.
Asking "do you like me?" reveals his lack of confidence, inability to read cues and of course his desperation. Just like when saying "I like you" he has no basis to say that, neither do women he just met. They can't answer the question because they can't know based on a few seconds of interaction. This guy seems to think attraction is just about looks and completely neglects personality, something that takes a long time to judge.

He doesn't know how to continue a conversation in the rare cases he gets them talking. When he does get them talking he also becomes surprised women talk to him and tell them that. Basically telling women he's not good with women and countless other women don't want him. It's like trying to sell a product saying "wow you want to buy this, nobody else did", I know I would change my mind if I heard that.

Dude....who cares about the person inside the body. It was a horrible pick up attempt, but let's leave the GAY **** out.

I know within 2 seconds if I want to bang a chick or not.
 

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I am trying to figure out his mental illness... Seen all kinds of mental illness and this guy is mentally ill. Definitely has some manic depressive in there (with his discussions about depression, and his behavior on this video seems to be manic and erratic). Definite manic phase here because I can see it in his wide "crazy" eyes, his hyperactivity, flight of ideas, excessive talkativeness, and overdone facial expressions . But he has to be comorbid with some other things... Not quite sure.
 

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Dude....who cares about the person inside the body. It was a horrible pick up attempt, but let's leave the GAY **** out.

I know within 2 seconds if I want to bang a chick or not.
That's disgusting, obviously you don't care about the person inside, you're superficial. Judging from how you attack my post in such a retarded way, there's not much of a person left in you to care about. You're an empty shell, you're a piece of meat, you're a nobody.

Please grow a personality before blindly bashing my posts again.
 

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Guys, let's simmer down so we can keep the thread open.

Zinc, his post was legit. He was saying how can he "like" a woman when he has no idea who she really is. Your response was overly aggressive imo.

You've both had your say so let's move on.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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the way he said and what he say yell to me like, he is special, you know forest gump special, also the way his videos are he is doing this alone. its sad really
 

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Guys, let's simmer down so we can keep the thread open.

Zinc, his post was legit. He was saying how can he "like" a woman when he has no idea who she really is. Your response was overly aggressive imo.

You've both had your say so let's move on.
Nah, he's gay as ****...I'm on to his agenda
 
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