Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I could feel the awkward just by watching this video. I'm not surprised he didn't get maced, he wasn't being aggressive enough for that.
Here is a breakdown of subcommunication:
Saying "I like you" is a bad opener, he has no basis to judge that. He's seen her walking for a couple of seconds, so it's plain obvious to any women that he's desperate and say it to get something from them. It's certainly not like saying "I like you" because he knows her and values her personality.
It's even worse to say "I'm attracted to you" because that attraction is purely superficial, it's all he can know after watching a woman walk for a few seconds. It's shows he has poor standards, is naive and seemingly a pretty face and body is enough. What about the person inside the body? Obviously not that important to him.
Asking "do you like me?" reveals his lack of confidence, inability to read cues and of course his desperation. Just like when saying "I like you" he has no basis to say that, neither do women he just met. They can't answer the question because they can't know based on a few seconds of interaction. This guy seems to think attraction is just about looks and completely neglects personality, something that takes a long time to judge.
He doesn't know how to continue a conversation in the rare cases he gets them talking. When he does get them talking he also becomes surprised women talk to him and tell them that. Basically telling women he's not good with women and countless other women don't want him. It's like trying to sell a product saying "wow you want to buy this, nobody else did", I know I would change my mind if I heard that.
That's disgusting, obviously you don't care about the person inside, you're superficial. Judging from how you attack my post in such a retarded way, there's not much of a person left in you to care about. You're an empty shell, you're a piece of meat, you're a nobody.Dude....who cares about the person inside the body. It was a horrible pick up attempt, but let's leave the GAY **** out.
I know within 2 seconds if I want to bang a chick or not.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Nah, he's gay as ****...I'm on to his agendaGuys, let's simmer down so we can keep the thread open.
Zinc, his post was legit. He was saying how can he "like" a woman when he has no idea who she really is. Your response was overly aggressive imo.
You've both had your say so let's move on.