Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Do you think this guy's street approach game is creepy?

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my opinion: I'm amazed that he didn't get maced! :eek:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I scanned through a couple of his videos. He seems to have issues. He talks about depression and about getting kicked out of stores for dancing around. He has several videos with the subject that white rice causes depression.
 

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I could feel the awkward just by watching this video. I'm not surprised he didn't get maced, he wasn't being aggressive enough for that.

Here is a breakdown of subcommunication:
Saying "I like you" is a bad opener, he has no basis to judge that. He's seen her walking for a couple of seconds, so it's plain obvious to any women that he's desperate and say it to get something from them. It's certainly not like saying "I like you" because he knows her and values her personality.
It's even worse to say "I'm attracted to you" because that attraction is purely superficial, it's all he can know after watching a woman walk for a few seconds. It's shows he has poor standards, is naive and seemingly a pretty face and body is enough. What about the person inside the body? Obviously not that important to him.
Asking "do you like me?" reveals his lack of confidence, inability to read cues and of course his desperation. Just like when saying "I like you" he has no basis to say that, neither do women he just met. They can't answer the question because they can't know based on a few seconds of interaction. This guy seems to think attraction is just about looks and completely neglects personality, something that takes a long time to judge.

He doesn't know how to continue a conversation in the rare cases he gets them talking. When he does get them talking he also becomes surprised women talk to him and tell them that. Basically telling women he's not good with women and countless other women don't want him. It's like trying to sell a product saying "wow you want to buy this, nobody else did", I know I would change my mind if I heard that.
 

Who Dares Win

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Kinda reminds the main character of mr robot, same social skills.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I could feel the awkward just by watching this video. I'm not surprised he didn't get maced, he wasn't being aggressive enough for that.

Here is a breakdown of subcommunication:
Saying "I like you" is a bad opener, he has no basis to judge that. He's seen her walking for a couple of seconds, so it's plain obvious to any women that he's desperate and say it to get something from them. It's certainly not like saying "I like you" because he knows her and values her personality.
It's even worse to say "I'm attracted to you" because that attraction is purely superficial, it's all he can know after watching a woman walk for a few seconds. It's shows he has poor standards, is naive and seemingly a pretty face and body is enough. What about the person inside the body? Obviously not that important to him.
Asking "do you like me?" reveals his lack of confidence, inability to read cues and of course his desperation. Just like when saying "I like you" he has no basis to say that, neither do women he just met. They can't answer the question because they can't know based on a few seconds of interaction. This guy seems to think attraction is just about looks and completely neglects personality, something that takes a long time to judge.

He doesn't know how to continue a conversation in the rare cases he gets them talking. When he does get them talking he also becomes surprised women talk to him and tell them that. Basically telling women he's not good with women and countless other women don't want him. It's like trying to sell a product saying "wow you want to buy this, nobody else did", I know I would change my mind if I heard that.

Dude....who cares about the person inside the body. It was a horrible pick up attempt, but let's leave the GAY **** out.

I know within 2 seconds if I want to bang a chick or not.
 

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I am trying to figure out his mental illness... Seen all kinds of mental illness and this guy is mentally ill. Definitely has some manic depressive in there (with his discussions about depression, and his behavior on this video seems to be manic and erratic). Definite manic phase here because I can see it in his wide "crazy" eyes, his hyperactivity, flight of ideas, excessive talkativeness, and overdone facial expressions . But he has to be comorbid with some other things... Not quite sure.
 

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Dude....who cares about the person inside the body. It was a horrible pick up attempt, but let's leave the GAY **** out.

I know within 2 seconds if I want to bang a chick or not.
That's disgusting, obviously you don't care about the person inside, you're superficial. Judging from how you attack my post in such a retarded way, there's not much of a person left in you to care about. You're an empty shell, you're a piece of meat, you're a nobody.

Please grow a personality before blindly bashing my posts again.
 

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Guys, let's simmer down so we can keep the thread open.

Zinc, his post was legit. He was saying how can he "like" a woman when he has no idea who she really is. Your response was overly aggressive imo.

You've both had your say so let's move on.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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the way he said and what he say yell to me like, he is special, you know forest gump special, also the way his videos are he is doing this alone. its sad really
 

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Guys, let's simmer down so we can keep the thread open.

Zinc, his post was legit. He was saying how can he "like" a woman when he has no idea who she really is. Your response was overly aggressive imo.

You've both had your say so let's move on.
Nah, he's gay as ****...I'm on to his agenda
 
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