"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Do you see men with mail order brides?

Bible_Belt

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Because I do, several times a week. It's always an older white guy with an ethnic Asian woman who is obviously not a native English speaker. I live in a small Midwestern town with hardly any Asian people. The woman is usually about 20 years younger. She'll be ok looking, not fat, not ugly but not super hot. They seem like happy couples.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Plinco

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Yes in retirement and semi-retirement communities, or with native ethnic latin people with women from south America.
 

The Duke

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I see pretty much the same thing, but Russian women as well. The Russian women are usually pretty decent looking.

A friend and I once picked up two Russian girls on our motorcycles. Both were married, out looking for attention. They both came to America thru dating services.
 

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If one lives in any large metropolitan area in The Post-Industrial West, I'm confident that we encounter such couples more often than we recognize, even if they hook up online more than they do the mail

This isn't even getting into the increasing frequency of sugar daddies in our wealthiest enclaves
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Until a few years go by and she understands she can get way better than the dude she married here, learns about divorce laws and then bounces on his ass.
Its mind-boggling how some men voluntarily "put all there chips on number 14" in order to get some mediocre p00sy from a third world country demon.

ANY woman can change her mind at ANY moment. The more you invest, the smaller the walls you're building to your own prison. No man walks away from a woman who he spent tens of thousands on just to have her being cranky and bored around the home...
 

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Because I do, several times a week. It's always an older white guy with an ethnic Asian woman who is obviously not a native English speaker. I live in a small Midwestern town with hardly any Asian people. The woman is usually about 20 years younger. She'll be ok looking, not fat, not ugly but not super hot. They seem like happy couples.
I see them all the time, but I know what I am looking at. The men all seem to be about my height. :mad: :mad:
 
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