2 days ago, I started to message a girl after NC of 2 months. She lives in Bali. We're 400 miles apart. We've been "friends" for ages.Are there more women coming back to you or just new women coming at you or is it just me and if yes, why do you think this is happening?
I stared by being nice and asked her about how she's doing lately. She started to give me obvious signals that she's so into me. She loved me but we never to get pass as friends.
She's from a very wealthy family and I'm not. She had some failed relationships. Some of her past boyfriends were after for her money or cheated on her. While I as her "friend", never used her for her money. Beside that, we have so many similarities.
So here's my theory on why it happened.
This coronavirus situation makes some of us more desperate. It's as if this is the end of everything. Her desperation makes her do whatever it takes to go and get the best man in her mind as hers. It's a live or death situation for her in her mind. If she's about to die, it's better to die with the best man around.
It might be a silly thing to do but sometimes women's logic is silly in men's logic.
This is a very solid theory. Not many men can handle crisis well. Only a handful of men really know how to lead even in a life or death situation.When sh1t gets scary chicks gravitate to men they think can deal with it, and they are immediately turned off by men they the think can't.
It makes sense. Her basic instinct is driving her actions.Apparently the uncertainity and fear makes women more attracted toward men who shows better chances to survive in a hostile environment, I was dressed very poorly too.
Based on these observations, I have to add to my own ideas of what women want in a man. It's not just about bravery. A brave man is a confident man. It's about bravery and how safe can a woman be with him. It's about how she and her (future) offspings can survive in these critical times.