"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Do you guys fear death?

Alvafe

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I don't, and i'm atheist so don't see much point in thinking about it
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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The fear of death is very normal because it's implanted into our DNA. We are living organisms, and it's normal for living organisms to fear death.

However, it doesn't mean you cannot start using your will power and logic and rationality to start "training" your mind to make peace with the thought of death.
 
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death is inevitable but I am a muslim so I don't believe that death is the end of everything. I fear old age when I won't be able to walk properly and my son will take care of me otherwise I will be an old man sleeping on street and begging people for money
 
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In Tralfamadorian philosophy, when a person dies they only appear to die. They are alive in other moments in the past. They may be in bad condition upon the moment of death, but they are doing great in other moments.
that's based on your presupposition of timelines
 

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that's based on your presupposition of timelines
There is only one timeline presupposed and one is able to move along the timeline in either direction freely at will. All time points are observed simultaneously, like a range of mountains on the horizon. So when an Earthling is captured and taken to the planetary zoo, they are also still alive and happy at other points in their existence and so as captors, the Tralfamadorians don't feel any guilt.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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There is only one timeline presupposed and one is able to move along the timeline in either direction freely at will. All time points are observed simultaneously, like a range of mountains on the horizon. So when an Earthling is captured and taken to the planetary zoo, they are also still alive and happy at other points in their existence and so as captors, the Tralfamadorians don't feel any guilt.
that's eternalism but I take the position of philosophical presentism
 

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I'm quite afraid of life actually. Kinda looking forward to the endless peace of the alternative option.
I live an entirely joyless existence. It sucks.
 

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I fear dying slowly. I hope I have the courage to bow out at the right time. Like for everything there will be a plan and a backup plan.
 

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You should, I've seen that up close more than once and its not nice.
If I could choose how I go out it would be at 140mph on my motorbike.
Bang! Lights out! Finito!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Observing my family elders over the years (4 grands and 3 great-grands still lived when i was young), i came to conclusion, the older you get, the less you worry about death. In some cases, people are even fed up enough at life, they look forward to death.

So, instead of worrying about death, you should think about how to make the next 30 years of your life count.

Decide what you consider to be a "worthy" life, write it down and focus on achieving it.
People only look forward to death because their life is miserable. I’m enjoying my time here and don’t want it to end.
 

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In a nutshell... Yeah!
 

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I don't think I fear based on how I was raised and belief in that I will be resurrected and before my resurrection I'm conscience of nothing so it does not matter. The only thing I fear is for my child, he isn't a man yet and needs guidance only I can provide him. Once he is older and more self sufficient and less dependent then it really doesn't matter. Though I want to live as long as I can because I enjoy life.
 

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Nope or at least not that much...what scares the **** out of me is getting old.

Losing strenght and potential while slowling becoming a dead weight for those around me.

Lets be honest, all those "men peak in their 50s" lines are pure bullsh1t, your 70s will suck and your 80s even more.
 

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I know someone who had a near death experience, saw the light, and had some sort of committee discussing their life. The funny thing is that this person argued with the committee to *not* go back. They wanted to stay dead because they could sense the light was way better. But the committee of whatever entities they were said no, it was not that person's time, and sent them back.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Nope or at least not that much...what scares the **** out of me is getting old.

Losing strenght and potential while slowling becoming a dead weight for those around me.

Lets be honest, all those "men peak in their 50s" lines are pure bullsh1t, your 70s will suck and your 80s even more.
I m in 50s. Holding down a high pressure job in a major bank. Beat a tennis player in his 20s last night. On top of the Mrs as much as she can handle. I agree on 60s by then nobody wants you.
 

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I m thinking a nice scenic spot in the wilds. Ham and Asparagus souffle with a bottle of mouton Rothschild. iPad loaded with snaps of porn girls to remind me that I can only raise a smile and it's time to go. And enough AMFO to take out a brick house. I ve lived my own way I LL die my own way.
 

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Mmmm.

No. Not really. Don’t relish the idea of it hurting. None of us gets out alive.

Live well & Prosper

Cheers
 

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I am terrified of death. The thought of not existing scares me unlike anything else.
I suppose we all are. I heard Kevin Samuels talk about a man placing parameters around what he holds most precious to him (family, wife, kids etc). Ones willingness to go out on his ****ing shield.



I remember seeing this as a kid. Right in the feels.

Maybe more relatable now knowing that this is not likely something I will experience. That something worthy risking myself for.



After more then a decade of game and cold approach pickup, I have never been willing to stake current and future earning. I've met cool chick's and women I let things run its course. I've never been one to risk my life over or consider a family with.

Op I meditate and explore consciousness. several heroic doses of mushrooms or a dmt trip. I'm faced with a death. Tibetan book of the dead talks ego deaths and bardos. several times it felt like a death and being born again. Similarly, I will fast and meditate but at the point of entering a breakthrough, the fear of God is cast over you. YouTube JRE Mike Tyson. He talks about the fear. It's terrifying. It's enlightening. And then you fallback. My ego kicks off. I'm not thrilled by the dumpster fire SMP women nor the culture and soy boy cucks. Exploring consciousness turns down the volume. Puts my ego in check. temporarily. I'm human. I relapse. Back in a cuckoldry world. girl power. Feminism. proud single mom's. sloot gonna sloot. Divorce rape. child custody. And a number of ****ery from Vax to scamdemic.

About due for another trip lulz!

The finite elements of life and the fear of death is to be met with URGENCY. It's precious cause we have this one life to live. The hero's journey is in living it and pursuing that which gives it all meaning as well as something worth dying for. Happy hunting.
 

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I used to... in my teens and early 20’s the world was amazing and possibilities are endless. The thought of leaving terrified me... at 40 things narrow and doors start to close. I am sure as I get older and older... friends will pass on, energy will fade, strength will decline and all that’s eventually left is the memories of what was.... so when that comes I will look forward to leaving my meat suit and progressing to my next story. Already there are so many souls I cannot wait to see again even if it might be brief. For now... making those memories to carry me thru my old Age is important.
I watched a Ram Dass doc. I later learned he died shortly after. He lost most of his health and mobility. he had a terrible stroke. The guy looked high on life. If enlightenment was a real thing, I think he found it. I'm sure living out your days like this is terrifying and yet this guy owned it. I am working on enjoying the moment yet making moves. It's not easy.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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