whiskerbiskit
Don Juan
from a dj's perspective what is the consensus? worth it? if yes, what are the relevant tips.
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Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Dating sites
- Thread starter whiskerbiskit
- Start date
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
foomee
Senior Don Juan
Not many sites are worth the effort, there's a few, but then it also really depends on where you're located. It says you're from Seattle so you may have a lot of luck, however for others in small cities they don't find much. Craigslist and Myspace work just as well, but stay away from sites like eharmony or match.com. A friend of mine found his girlfriend from yahoo personals and I've heard good things from plentyoffish.com
CoolRunning
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I've actually had decent luck with match.com. The girls there are generally older, but since I am 27 myself, it's not a big deal. As long as you have a cool profile and good pics, it's ridiculously easily to set up a date. Then you take it from there. Now, I'm still a rank beginner, so I have trouble with that step......but if you can get her to meet you and you are good, it's pretty much in the bag right?
isoman2kx
Don Juan
plentyoffish = plenty of uggs lol
seriously, there's maybe 1 attractive chick for every 10 ugs on there.... not wort h it at all.
yahoo personals is alright, but to get anywhere ya gotta pay with that.
myspace/facebook's probably the best free bet if you're 21 and under.
seriously, there's maybe 1 attractive chick for every 10 ugs on there.... not wort h it at all.
yahoo personals is alright, but to get anywhere ya gotta pay with that.
myspace/facebook's probably the best free bet if you're 21 and under.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Don't expect much from free sites. People who are serious will pay to be on a structured site that has other serious daters. Ask yourself, who would be more serious in meeting you, a woman who hasn't done anything but post a picture on a free site or a woman who posted a picture, wrote a concise profile and pay something between $100-250 a year for the service? It's the difference between MySpace.com and Match.com.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Vulpine
Master Don Juan
If you are in a rural or small town, don't even bother unless you plan on having a range of at least 100 miles. Once you hit on the 5 or 6 you find worthy, that's it. The pool isn't large enough to pay for.
My Name is Nobody
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Dating sites are fun.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
not worth the effort.
they are jus there for attention......they get 10 emails a day, and won't even read all the way through unless, you got picture with you half naked with a "six pack"
they are jus there for attention......they get 10 emails a day, and won't even read all the way through unless, you got picture with you half naked with a "six pack"
My Name is Nobody
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spider_007 said:
So then why have I gotten laid 3 times off match? I got no sixpack. Not even a 2 pack.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Those who can, do; those who can't, preach....My Name is Nobody said:
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
hell, i don't know.....i went on "plenty of fish"....posted a decen genuine profile, and couple of decent pictures......and i couldn't even get the UGs to respond.My Name is Nobody said:
from personal experience; online daing isn't worth the effort.
hell, if you got some advice on how you managed that, please share!!!!
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
You need to:spider_007 said:
- Understand your product
- Understand the market
- Determine your target customers
- Market toward your target customers
spider_007
Master Don Juan
the market is in a recession.:moon:
and i wasn't even going for the hot once....just the normal 5s
and i wasn't even going for the hot once....just the normal 5s
thirtyplus
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That's a big part of the problem right there....spider_007 said:
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
My Name is Nobody
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What does your first email to the woman look like?
spider_007
Master Don Juan
DAMN IT Francisco d'Anconia ARE YOU TRYING TO TEACH ME A LESSON HERE?????
i log on to check my profile (which i guess it bumped it up)
http://www.plentyoffish.com/member3555134.htm
and i get an email back;
A bunch of egotistical fatties..not all of us
and yes a lot of people have lost that genuinity, but there are a few of us left.
Jennifer
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Oh crap......i'd bet money if i replyed, she wouldn't reply back.:moon:
i log on to check my profile (which i guess it bumped it up)
http://www.plentyoffish.com/member3555134.htm
and i get an email back;
A bunch of egotistical fatties..not all of us
and yes a lot of people have lost that genuinity, but there are a few of us left.
Jennifer
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Oh crap......i'd bet money if i replyed, she wouldn't reply back.:moon:
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Here's another issue.My Name is Nobody said:
You should search the forum. There's been quite a few detailed threads about sarging online.
My Name is Nobody
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In the online dating game it's every man for himself. Way too much competition so I can't reveal any secrets. At least until I get some.