“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Not many sites are worth the effort, there's a few, but then it also really depends on where you're located. It says you're from Seattle so you may have a lot of luck, however for others in small cities they don't find much. Craigslist and Myspace work just as well, but stay away from sites like eharmony or match.com. A friend of mine found his girlfriend from yahoo personals and I've heard good things from plentyoffish.com
 

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I've actually had decent luck with match.com. The girls there are generally older, but since I am 27 myself, it's not a big deal. As long as you have a cool profile and good pics, it's ridiculously easily to set up a date. Then you take it from there. Now, I'm still a rank beginner, so I have trouble with that step......but if you can get her to meet you and you are good, it's pretty much in the bag right?
 

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plentyoffish = plenty of uggs lol

seriously, there's maybe 1 attractive chick for every 10 ugs on there.... not wort h it at all.

yahoo personals is alright, but to get anywhere ya gotta pay with that.

myspace/facebook's probably the best free bet if you're 21 and under.
 

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Don't expect much from free sites. People who are serious will pay to be on a structured site that has other serious daters. Ask yourself, who would be more serious in meeting you, a woman who hasn't done anything but post a picture on a free site or a woman who posted a picture, wrote a concise profile and pay something between $100-250 a year for the service? It's the difference between MySpace.com and Match.com.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If you are in a rural or small town, don't even bother unless you plan on having a range of at least 100 miles. Once you hit on the 5 or 6 you find worthy, that's it. The pool isn't large enough to pay for.
 

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not worth the effort.

they are jus there for attention......they get 10 emails a day, and won't even read all the way through unless, you got picture with you half naked with a "six pack"
 
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spider_007 said:
not worth the effort.

they are jus there for attention......they get 10 emails a day, and won't even read all the way through unless, you got picture with you half naked with a "six pack"

So then why have I gotten laid 3 times off match? I got no sixpack. Not even a 2 pack.
 

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So then why have I gotten laid 3 times off match? I got no sixpack. Not even a 2 pack.
Those who can, do; those who can't, preach.... :p
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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My Name is Nobody said:
So then why have I gotten laid 3 times off match? I got no sixpack. Not even a 2 pack.
hell, i don't know.....i went on "plenty of fish"....posted a decen genuine profile, and couple of decent pictures......and i couldn't even get the UGs to respond.

from personal experience; online daing isn't worth the effort.



hell, if you got some advice on how you managed that, please share!!!!
 

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spider_007 said:
hell, i don't know.....i went on "plenty of fish"....posted a decen genuine profile, and couple of decent pictures......and i couldn't even get the UGs to respond.

from personal experience; online daing isn't worth the effort.



hell, if you got some advice on how you managed that, please share!!!!
You need to:
  1. Understand your product
  2. Understand the market
  3. Determine your target customers
  4. Market toward your target customers
 

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the market is in a recession.:moon:

and i wasn't even going for the hot once....just the normal 5s
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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DAMN IT Francisco d'Anconia ARE YOU TRYING TO TEACH ME A LESSON HERE?????

i log on to check my profile (which i guess it bumped it up)
http://www.plentyoffish.com/member3555134.htm




and i get an email back;

A bunch of egotistical fatties..not all of us ;)
and yes a lot of people have lost that genuinity, but there are a few of us left.

Jennifer


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Oh crap......i'd bet money if i replyed, she wouldn't reply back.:moon:
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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What does your first email to the woman look like?
Here's another issue.

You should search the forum. There's been quite a few detailed threads about sarging online.
 
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In the online dating game it's every man for himself. Way too much competition so I can't reveal any secrets. At least until I get some.
 
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