"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Not many sites are worth the effort, there's a few, but then it also really depends on where you're located. It says you're from Seattle so you may have a lot of luck, however for others in small cities they don't find much. Craigslist and Myspace work just as well, but stay away from sites like eharmony or match.com. A friend of mine found his girlfriend from yahoo personals and I've heard good things from plentyoffish.com
 

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I've actually had decent luck with match.com. The girls there are generally older, but since I am 27 myself, it's not a big deal. As long as you have a cool profile and good pics, it's ridiculously easily to set up a date. Then you take it from there. Now, I'm still a rank beginner, so I have trouble with that step......but if you can get her to meet you and you are good, it's pretty much in the bag right?
 

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plentyoffish = plenty of uggs lol

seriously, there's maybe 1 attractive chick for every 10 ugs on there.... not wort h it at all.

yahoo personals is alright, but to get anywhere ya gotta pay with that.

myspace/facebook's probably the best free bet if you're 21 and under.
 

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Don't expect much from free sites. People who are serious will pay to be on a structured site that has other serious daters. Ask yourself, who would be more serious in meeting you, a woman who hasn't done anything but post a picture on a free site or a woman who posted a picture, wrote a concise profile and pay something between $100-250 a year for the service? It's the difference between MySpace.com and Match.com.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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If you are in a rural or small town, don't even bother unless you plan on having a range of at least 100 miles. Once you hit on the 5 or 6 you find worthy, that's it. The pool isn't large enough to pay for.
 

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not worth the effort.

they are jus there for attention......they get 10 emails a day, and won't even read all the way through unless, you got picture with you half naked with a "six pack"
 
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spider_007 said:
not worth the effort.

they are jus there for attention......they get 10 emails a day, and won't even read all the way through unless, you got picture with you half naked with a "six pack"

So then why have I gotten laid 3 times off match? I got no sixpack. Not even a 2 pack.
 

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My Name is Nobody said:
So then why have I gotten laid 3 times off match? I got no sixpack. Not even a 2 pack.
Those who can, do; those who can't, preach.... :p
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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My Name is Nobody said:
So then why have I gotten laid 3 times off match? I got no sixpack. Not even a 2 pack.
hell, i don't know.....i went on "plenty of fish"....posted a decen genuine profile, and couple of decent pictures......and i couldn't even get the UGs to respond.

from personal experience; online daing isn't worth the effort.



hell, if you got some advice on how you managed that, please share!!!!
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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spider_007 said:
hell, i don't know.....i went on "plenty of fish"....posted a decen genuine profile, and couple of decent pictures......and i couldn't even get the UGs to respond.

from personal experience; online daing isn't worth the effort.



hell, if you got some advice on how you managed that, please share!!!!
You need to:
  1. Understand your product
  2. Understand the market
  3. Determine your target customers
  4. Market toward your target customers
 

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the market is in a recession.:moon:

and i wasn't even going for the hot once....just the normal 5s
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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DAMN IT Francisco d'Anconia ARE YOU TRYING TO TEACH ME A LESSON HERE?????

i log on to check my profile (which i guess it bumped it up)
http://www.plentyoffish.com/member3555134.htm




and i get an email back;

A bunch of egotistical fatties..not all of us ;)
and yes a lot of people have lost that genuinity, but there are a few of us left.

Jennifer


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Oh crap......i'd bet money if i replyed, she wouldn't reply back.:moon:
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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What does your first email to the woman look like?
Here's another issue.

You should search the forum. There's been quite a few detailed threads about sarging online.
 
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In the online dating game it's every man for himself. Way too much competition so I can't reveal any secrets. At least until I get some.
 
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