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Don Juan
from a dj's perspective what is the consensus? worth it? if yes, what are the relevant tips.
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She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
spider_007 said:not worth the effort.
they are jus there for attention......they get 10 emails a day, and won't even read all the way through unless, you got picture with you half naked with a "six pack"
Those who can, do; those who can't, preach....My Name is Nobody said:So then why have I gotten laid 3 times off match? I got no sixpack. Not even a 2 pack.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Alright superman, spill it. Details.My Name is Nobody said:Dating sites are fun.
hell, i don't know.....i went on "plenty of fish"....posted a decen genuine profile, and couple of decent pictures......and i couldn't even get the UGs to respond.My Name is Nobody said:So then why have I gotten laid 3 times off match? I got no sixpack. Not even a 2 pack.
You need to:spider_007 said:hell, i don't know.....i went on "plenty of fish"....posted a decen genuine profile, and couple of decent pictures......and i couldn't even get the UGs to respond.
from personal experience; online daing isn't worth the effort.
hell, if you got some advice on how you managed that, please share!!!!
That's a big part of the problem right there....spider_007 said:the market is in a recession.:moon:
and i wasn't even going for the hot once....just the normal 5s
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Here's another issue.My Name is Nobody said:What does your first email to the woman look like?