whiskerbiskit
Don Juan
from a dj's perspective what is the consensus? worth it? if yes, what are the relevant tips.
wb
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Dating sites
- Thread starter whiskerbiskit
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
foomee
Senior Don Juan
Not many sites are worth the effort, there's a few, but then it also really depends on where you're located. It says you're from Seattle so you may have a lot of luck, however for others in small cities they don't find much. Craigslist and Myspace work just as well, but stay away from sites like eharmony or match.com. A friend of mine found his girlfriend from yahoo personals and I've heard good things from plentyoffish.com
CoolRunning
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I've actually had decent luck with match.com. The girls there are generally older, but since I am 27 myself, it's not a big deal. As long as you have a cool profile and good pics, it's ridiculously easily to set up a date. Then you take it from there. Now, I'm still a rank beginner, so I have trouble with that step......but if you can get her to meet you and you are good, it's pretty much in the bag right?
isoman2kx
Don Juan
plentyoffish = plenty of uggs lol
seriously, there's maybe 1 attractive chick for every 10 ugs on there.... not wort h it at all.
yahoo personals is alright, but to get anywhere ya gotta pay with that.
myspace/facebook's probably the best free bet if you're 21 and under.
seriously, there's maybe 1 attractive chick for every 10 ugs on there.... not wort h it at all.
yahoo personals is alright, but to get anywhere ya gotta pay with that.
myspace/facebook's probably the best free bet if you're 21 and under.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Don't expect much from free sites. People who are serious will pay to be on a structured site that has other serious daters. Ask yourself, who would be more serious in meeting you, a woman who hasn't done anything but post a picture on a free site or a woman who posted a picture, wrote a concise profile and pay something between $100-250 a year for the service? It's the difference between MySpace.com and Match.com.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Vulpine
Master Don Juan
If you are in a rural or small town, don't even bother unless you plan on having a range of at least 100 miles. Once you hit on the 5 or 6 you find worthy, that's it. The pool isn't large enough to pay for.
My Name is Nobody
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Dating sites are fun.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
not worth the effort.
they are jus there for attention......they get 10 emails a day, and won't even read all the way through unless, you got picture with you half naked with a "six pack"
they are jus there for attention......they get 10 emails a day, and won't even read all the way through unless, you got picture with you half naked with a "six pack"
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spider_007 said:
So then why have I gotten laid 3 times off match? I got no sixpack. Not even a 2 pack.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Those who can, do; those who can't, preach....My Name is Nobody said:
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
hell, i don't know.....i went on "plenty of fish"....posted a decen genuine profile, and couple of decent pictures......and i couldn't even get the UGs to respond.My Name is Nobody said:
from personal experience; online daing isn't worth the effort.
hell, if you got some advice on how you managed that, please share!!!!
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
You need to:spider_007 said:
- Understand your product
- Understand the market
- Determine your target customers
- Market toward your target customers
spider_007
Master Don Juan
the market is in a recession.:moon:
and i wasn't even going for the hot once....just the normal 5s
and i wasn't even going for the hot once....just the normal 5s
thirtyplus
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That's a big part of the problem right there....spider_007 said:
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
My Name is Nobody
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What does your first email to the woman look like?
spider_007
Master Don Juan
DAMN IT Francisco d'Anconia ARE YOU TRYING TO TEACH ME A LESSON HERE?????
i log on to check my profile (which i guess it bumped it up)
http://www.plentyoffish.com/member3555134.htm
and i get an email back;
A bunch of egotistical fatties..not all of us
and yes a lot of people have lost that genuinity, but there are a few of us left.
Jennifer
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Oh crap......i'd bet money if i replyed, she wouldn't reply back.:moon:
i log on to check my profile (which i guess it bumped it up)
http://www.plentyoffish.com/member3555134.htm
and i get an email back;
A bunch of egotistical fatties..not all of us
and yes a lot of people have lost that genuinity, but there are a few of us left.
Jennifer
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Oh crap......i'd bet money if i replyed, she wouldn't reply back.:moon:
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Here's another issue.My Name is Nobody said:
You should search the forum. There's been quite a few detailed threads about sarging online.
My Name is Nobody
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In the online dating game it's every man for himself. Way too much competition so I can't reveal any secrets. At least until I get some.