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Don Juan
from a dj's perspective what is the consensus? worth it? if yes, what are the relevant tips.
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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
spider_007 said:not worth the effort.
they are jus there for attention......they get 10 emails a day, and won't even read all the way through unless, you got picture with you half naked with a "six pack"
Those who can, do; those who can't, preach....My Name is Nobody said:So then why have I gotten laid 3 times off match? I got no sixpack. Not even a 2 pack.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Alright superman, spill it. Details.My Name is Nobody said:Dating sites are fun.
hell, i don't know.....i went on "plenty of fish"....posted a decen genuine profile, and couple of decent pictures......and i couldn't even get the UGs to respond.My Name is Nobody said:So then why have I gotten laid 3 times off match? I got no sixpack. Not even a 2 pack.
You need to:spider_007 said:hell, i don't know.....i went on "plenty of fish"....posted a decen genuine profile, and couple of decent pictures......and i couldn't even get the UGs to respond.
from personal experience; online daing isn't worth the effort.
hell, if you got some advice on how you managed that, please share!!!!
That's a big part of the problem right there....spider_007 said:the market is in a recession.:moon:
and i wasn't even going for the hot once....just the normal 5s
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Here's another issue.My Name is Nobody said:What does your first email to the woman look like?