"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Cleared it with the mods! A thread I’ve wanted to do for years. Post your real life picture let the community help fix your looks!(completely optiona)

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Guys, I'll be sending my invoice out this week for all the photoshopping I did for you. If anyone else is interested, PM me and I'll make you look like an adonis for a reasonable fee.
Can you photoshopping my face Into like group pics with hot girls to make me look popular or onto a more built body?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Are pics like these good on your profile? Showing a softer side as well?

 

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WTF...... Are you serious? You need to get your testosterone checked.
No, I didn't use that LOL. I do have a pic holding my baby cousin I use on my match profile. I use that because a lot of post wall single Moms on match looking for people who like kids. I don't use it on Tinder for example.
 

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No, I didn't use that LOL. I do have a pic holding my baby cousin I use on my match profile. I use that because a lot of post wall single Moms on match looking for people who like kids. I don't use it on Tinder for example.
You're a strange cat dude. S-T-R-A-N-G-E. Like kids, yes, not wanting to have sex with them. That is the vibe you are giving off.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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You're a strange cat dude. S-T-R-A-N-G-E. Like kids, yes, not wanting to have sex with them. That is the vibe you are giving off.
Women, these post wall ones with kids want a fatherly figure to Beta Buxx. Hence the wording about financial security in their profile. They want a guy who will support their kids and travel lifestyle. I mean if she's hot I'd go to extreme measures to Beta Buxx to get a hot girl.
 

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Women, these post wall ones with kids want a fatherly figure to Beta Buxx. Hence the wording about financial security in their profile. They want a guy who will support their kids and travel lifestyle. I mean if she's hot I'd go to extreme measures to Beta Buxx to get a hot girl.
You sitting inside a large bear and having a little child on your lap doesn't show this. It shows that you are creepy and possibly have pedophile tendencies. Let's not even bring up how you're dressing. Ever watch To Catch A Predator on MSNBC? They usually dress like you did with your big bear friend. Delete these pictures. Work on your body (weight train), decent clothes and drop the pedo pics. Jesus Christ.
 

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You sitting inside a large bear and having a little child on your lap doesn't show this. It shows that you are creepy and possibly have pedophile tendencies. Let's not even bring up how you're dressing. Ever watch To Catch A Predator on MSNBC? They usually dress like you did with your big bear friend. Delete these pictures. Work on your body (weight train), decent clothes and drop the pedo pics. Jesus Christ.
And if a father had his kid on his lap or gave them a hug it's gay?
 

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You sitting inside a large bear and having a little child on your lap doesn't show this. It shows that you are creepy and possibly have pedophile tendencies. Let's not even bring up how you're dressing. Ever watch To Catch A Predator on MSNBC? They usually dress like you did with your big bear friend. Delete these pictures. Work on your body (weight train), decent clothes and drop the pedo pics. Jesus Christ.
No, the pic holding my baby cousin is NOT with that bear ROFL.

A couple years ago they started up again with True Crime Daily. They used a hot 19 year old decoy this time and the dudes were dressed normal but a lot of them were older.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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No, the pic holding my baby cousin is NOT with that bear ROFL.

A couple years ago they started up again with True Crime Daily. They used a hot 19 year old decoy this time and the dudes were dressed normal but a lot of them were older.
@biggoal, read these to make sure you do not stand out like one.

 

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Not too sure a sane dude would put a pic with his children on a dating app. Ladies do, but, well, they're not all there..
Many single moms post pics of just their kids. I mean with them not in their photos but just their kids. What are they thinking? Are they thinking some Beta Buxx guy with no kids of his own would go for her because she already has kids?
 

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@biggoal, read these to make sure you do not stand out like one.

I'm not left handed lol.
 

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Many single moms post pics of just their kids. I mean with them not in their photos but just their kids. What are they thinking? Are they thinking some Beta Buxx guy with no kids of his own would go for her because she already has kids?
Are you a single Mom? I've dated single mom's from OLD for a fling years ago. Selfie in a suit at a party, me at axe throwing, ziplining in CT and a pick my with friends (with their faces blurred out). I never had an issue. I never would think of putting a pic like you've suggested here.
 

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Are you a single Mom? I've dated single mom's from OLD for a fling years ago. Selfie in a suit at a party, me at axe throwing, ziplining in CT and a pick my with friends (with their faces blurred out). I never had an issue. I never would think of putting a pic like you've suggested here.
You only had 3 pics?? What about angle shots of your face, smile, etc? Some women have 20 pics. I think about 6 pics is good. Mainly so they can tell you're not a lardball.

Just like with women if there are no pics of their teeth or torso I won't message them. Figure teeth are bad or they're hiding their fat or are covered in tats and don't want you to notice it.

If if their face looks hot and only one pic and not smiling or at least shows their body I won't reply.

A great example is a chick on Match 30 miles away who looks HB7.5 and cute in the face. However she hides her body. At first she said in her "what I'm bad at" and she said at walking. I didn't think much of it at first and figured she was meaning she was a klutz maybe so I wrote her. Then a few days later I looked at her profile again and she changed it and said she's in a wheel chair but hid all hints of it. Even propped herself up.

So if no body shot it's a no go for me to write them.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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