"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Cleared it with the mods! A thread I’ve wanted to do for years. Post your real life picture let the community help fix your looks!(completely optiona)

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Guys, I'll be sending my invoice out this week for all the photoshopping I did for you. If anyone else is interested, PM me and I'll make you look like an adonis for a reasonable fee.
Can you photoshopping my face Into like group pics with hot girls to make me look popular or onto a more built body?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Are pics like these good on your profile? Showing a softer side as well?

 

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WTF...... Are you serious? You need to get your testosterone checked.
No, I didn't use that LOL. I do have a pic holding my baby cousin I use on my match profile. I use that because a lot of post wall single Moms on match looking for people who like kids. I don't use it on Tinder for example.
 

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No, I didn't use that LOL. I do have a pic holding my baby cousin I use on my match profile. I use that because a lot of post wall single Moms on match looking for people who like kids. I don't use it on Tinder for example.
You're a strange cat dude. S-T-R-A-N-G-E. Like kids, yes, not wanting to have sex with them. That is the vibe you are giving off.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You're a strange cat dude. S-T-R-A-N-G-E. Like kids, yes, not wanting to have sex with them. That is the vibe you are giving off.
Women, these post wall ones with kids want a fatherly figure to Beta Buxx. Hence the wording about financial security in their profile. They want a guy who will support their kids and travel lifestyle. I mean if she's hot I'd go to extreme measures to Beta Buxx to get a hot girl.
 

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Women, these post wall ones with kids want a fatherly figure to Beta Buxx. Hence the wording about financial security in their profile. They want a guy who will support their kids and travel lifestyle. I mean if she's hot I'd go to extreme measures to Beta Buxx to get a hot girl.
You sitting inside a large bear and having a little child on your lap doesn't show this. It shows that you are creepy and possibly have pedophile tendencies. Let's not even bring up how you're dressing. Ever watch To Catch A Predator on MSNBC? They usually dress like you did with your big bear friend. Delete these pictures. Work on your body (weight train), decent clothes and drop the pedo pics. Jesus Christ.
 

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You sitting inside a large bear and having a little child on your lap doesn't show this. It shows that you are creepy and possibly have pedophile tendencies. Let's not even bring up how you're dressing. Ever watch To Catch A Predator on MSNBC? They usually dress like you did with your big bear friend. Delete these pictures. Work on your body (weight train), decent clothes and drop the pedo pics. Jesus Christ.
And if a father had his kid on his lap or gave them a hug it's gay?
 

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You sitting inside a large bear and having a little child on your lap doesn't show this. It shows that you are creepy and possibly have pedophile tendencies. Let's not even bring up how you're dressing. Ever watch To Catch A Predator on MSNBC? They usually dress like you did with your big bear friend. Delete these pictures. Work on your body (weight train), decent clothes and drop the pedo pics. Jesus Christ.
No, the pic holding my baby cousin is NOT with that bear ROFL.

A couple years ago they started up again with True Crime Daily. They used a hot 19 year old decoy this time and the dudes were dressed normal but a lot of them were older.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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No, the pic holding my baby cousin is NOT with that bear ROFL.

A couple years ago they started up again with True Crime Daily. They used a hot 19 year old decoy this time and the dudes were dressed normal but a lot of them were older.
@biggoal, read these to make sure you do not stand out like one.

 

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Not too sure a sane dude would put a pic with his children on a dating app. Ladies do, but, well, they're not all there..
Many single moms post pics of just their kids. I mean with them not in their photos but just their kids. What are they thinking? Are they thinking some Beta Buxx guy with no kids of his own would go for her because she already has kids?
 

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@biggoal, read these to make sure you do not stand out like one.

I'm not left handed lol.
 

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Many single moms post pics of just their kids. I mean with them not in their photos but just their kids. What are they thinking? Are they thinking some Beta Buxx guy with no kids of his own would go for her because she already has kids?
Are you a single Mom? I've dated single mom's from OLD for a fling years ago. Selfie in a suit at a party, me at axe throwing, ziplining in CT and a pick my with friends (with their faces blurred out). I never had an issue. I never would think of putting a pic like you've suggested here.
 

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Are you a single Mom? I've dated single mom's from OLD for a fling years ago. Selfie in a suit at a party, me at axe throwing, ziplining in CT and a pick my with friends (with their faces blurred out). I never had an issue. I never would think of putting a pic like you've suggested here.
You only had 3 pics?? What about angle shots of your face, smile, etc? Some women have 20 pics. I think about 6 pics is good. Mainly so they can tell you're not a lardball.

Just like with women if there are no pics of their teeth or torso I won't message them. Figure teeth are bad or they're hiding their fat or are covered in tats and don't want you to notice it.

If if their face looks hot and only one pic and not smiling or at least shows their body I won't reply.

A great example is a chick on Match 30 miles away who looks HB7.5 and cute in the face. However she hides her body. At first she said in her "what I'm bad at" and she said at walking. I didn't think much of it at first and figured she was meaning she was a klutz maybe so I wrote her. Then a few days later I looked at her profile again and she changed it and said she's in a wheel chair but hid all hints of it. Even propped herself up.

So if no body shot it's a no go for me to write them.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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