lamath
Master Don Juan
Hahah
When someone mention Pinocchio on a place like here we know a pic like this is mandatory.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Cleared it with the mods! A thread I’ve wanted to do for years. Post your real life picture let the community help fix your looks!(completely optiona)
- Thread starter cola
- Start date
When someone mention Pinocchio on a place like here we know a pic like this is mandatory.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
whats your ethnicity?
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lamath
Master Don Juan
Dammm with all the pic that im seeing im starting to realise i need to work out a **** load more
Can you photoshopping my face Into like group pics with hot girls to make me look popular or onto a more built body?
Fact!
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
RickTheToad
Moderator
WTF...... Are you serious? You need to get your testosterone checked.Are pics like these good on your profile? Showing a softer side as well?
No, I didn't use that LOL. I do have a pic holding my baby cousin I use on my match profile. I use that because a lot of post wall single Moms on match looking for people who like kids. I don't use it on Tinder for example.
RickTheToad
Moderator
You're a strange cat dude. S-T-R-A-N-G-E. Like kids, yes, not wanting to have sex with them. That is the vibe you are giving off.
RickTheToad
Moderator
That's hilarious. I do not think BG knows what that is though.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Women, these post wall ones with kids want a fatherly figure to Beta Buxx. Hence the wording about financial security in their profile. They want a guy who will support their kids and travel lifestyle. I mean if she's hot I'd go to extreme measures to Beta Buxx to get a hot girl.
RickTheToad
Moderator
You sitting inside a large bear and having a little child on your lap doesn't show this. It shows that you are creepy and possibly have pedophile tendencies. Let's not even bring up how you're dressing. Ever watch To Catch A Predator on MSNBC? They usually dress like you did with your big bear friend. Delete these pictures. Work on your body (weight train), decent clothes and drop the pedo pics. Jesus Christ.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
And if a father had his kid on his lap or gave them a hug it's gay?
No, the pic holding my baby cousin is NOT with that bear ROFL.
A couple years ago they started up again with True Crime Daily. They used a hot 19 year old decoy this time and the dudes were dressed normal but a lot of them were older.
RickTheToad
Moderator
Not too sure a sane dude would put a pic with his children on a dating app. Ladies do, but, well, they're not all there..
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
RickTheToad
Moderator
@biggoal, read these to make sure you do not stand out like one.
Spotting A Pedophile: Men With Pedophilic Tendencies Are Often Left-Handed With Physical Deformities
Pedophiles are often left-handed and have superficial deformities on their face or neck.
www.medicaldaily.com
Psychopathology and Personality Traits of Pedophiles
Because of recent scandals, pedophilia is one of the few psychiatric disorders widely known to the general public.
www.psychiatrictimes.com
Many single moms post pics of just their kids. I mean with them not in their photos but just their kids. What are they thinking? Are they thinking some Beta Buxx guy with no kids of his own would go for her because she already has kids?
I'm not left handed lol.@biggoal, read these to make sure you do not stand out like one.
Spotting A Pedophile: Men With Pedophilic Tendencies Are Often Left-Handed With Physical Deformities
Pedophiles are often left-handed and have superficial deformities on their face or neck.www.medicaldaily.comPsychopathology and Personality Traits of Pedophiles
Because of recent scandals, pedophilia is one of the few psychiatric disorders widely known to the general public.www.psychiatrictimes.com
RickTheToad
Moderator
Are you a single Mom? I've dated single mom's from OLD for a fling years ago. Selfie in a suit at a party, me at axe throwing, ziplining in CT and a pick my with friends (with their faces blurred out). I never had an issue. I never would think of putting a pic like you've suggested here.
You only had 3 pics?? What about angle shots of your face, smile, etc? Some women have 20 pics. I think about 6 pics is good. Mainly so they can tell you're not a lardball.
Just like with women if there are no pics of their teeth or torso I won't message them. Figure teeth are bad or they're hiding their fat or are covered in tats and don't want you to notice it.
If if their face looks hot and only one pic and not smiling or at least shows their body I won't reply.
A great example is a chick on Match 30 miles away who looks HB7.5 and cute in the face. However she hides her body. At first she said in her "what I'm bad at" and she said at walking. I didn't think much of it at first and figured she was meaning she was a klutz maybe so I wrote her. Then a few days later I looked at her profile again and she changed it and said she's in a wheel chair but hid all hints of it. Even propped herself up.
So if no body shot it's a no go for me to write them.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.