"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
easy day
might try biking tomorrow, I've had quite a few days off from that activity.
Really craving to go swimming this weekend but I don't know if they closed again due to covid or maybe easter
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Also same powerwalking and climbing, reaching, squatting, kneeling, gripping/holding, balancing and hand-over-hand fastpaced strength exertions for 6.75 hours at work.
One pushup.
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Literally all you need to get in one of the best workouts you can do is a single step. Easier if you have one of those gym steps but you can just go down to the bottom of the steps in your house and do it there. Works equally well.
Step up with one foot, then up with the other. Then down with the first foot and down with the other. Add in swinging your arms up and then back down and do it as fast as you can.
Do 3 sets of 10 minutes with a 1 minute break in between and you will be drenched in sweat and gasping for air by the end.
No equipment, no gym, no nothing required.
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Not happening at this time of year unless you live in the Southern Hemisphere where it was summer or near the equator.
Best bet is to take 10000 IUs a day and monitor your levels...that puts me squarely around 65-75 which is optimal.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.