"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
easy day
might try biking tomorrow, I've had quite a few days off from that activity.
Really craving to go swimming this weekend but I don't know if they closed again due to covid or maybe easter
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Also same powerwalking and climbing, reaching, squatting, kneeling, gripping/holding, balancing and hand-over-hand fastpaced strength exertions for 6.75 hours at work.
One pushup.
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Literally all you need to get in one of the best workouts you can do is a single step. Easier if you have one of those gym steps but you can just go down to the bottom of the steps in your house and do it there. Works equally well.
Step up with one foot, then up with the other. Then down with the first foot and down with the other. Add in swinging your arms up and then back down and do it as fast as you can.
Do 3 sets of 10 minutes with a 1 minute break in between and you will be drenched in sweat and gasping for air by the end.
No equipment, no gym, no nothing required.
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Not happening at this time of year unless you live in the Southern Hemisphere where it was summer or near the equator.
Best bet is to take 10000 IUs a day and monitor your levels...that puts me squarely around 65-75 which is optimal.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.