"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I'd say 70 percent of 18 year olds have this body. You need mass and low body fat if you wanna turn heads.
 

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You're obviously ugly then, the boy body is the only thing allowing you awful dates with the whales, freaks, and weirdos you post about here on a weekly basis.

bah,maybe, it looks actually much better in the mirror than on picture
Ok bigdave.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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bah,maybe, it looks actually much better in the mirror than on picture
Not to say you couldn't get a 9 with that body, but if you are looking to max out on your physique then u better get lifting those heavy weights
 

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why not just show your muscly body
Because I get more play than you, and it's nothing to do with my body.

You have what I would call a poverty build. Very slim, little body fat, malnourished. Lay off the bread and water.
 

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Because I get more play than you, and it's nothing to do with my body.

You have what I would call a poverty build. Very slim, little body fat, malnourished. Lay off the bread and water.
i think i am somehow limited due to the fact i train at home, when i trained at gym i had more weight and more I weighted more.


at home i can do a lot of repeats over 40 no matter what exercise it is with my body weight, whire it should be max 12
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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yeah I can se you really know what you are doing and saying....... just stop giving advice about that, before someone really take this sh!t serious
 

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You need to start bench pressing... nothing less then 160 pounds for good size
 

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You need to start bench pressing... nothing less then 160 pounds for good size
Squat, deadlift, bent rows, military presses, curls, calf raises, shrugs too. There's alot more muscle on the human body that the core movers used during the bench press.
 

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I believe that a little bit of muscle tone even at the same current body fat would make a lot of difference.

3 months of noob gains while on a correct diet could get you 1 or 2 points in terms of look.

The current frame and the ratio between shoulders and waist is not bad either.
 

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Squat, deadlift, bent rows, military presses, curls, calf raises, shrugs too. There's alot more muscle on the human body that the core movers used during the bench press.
I know, I just didn't feel like saying all that. Plus u gotta crawl before you walk
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I know, I just didn't feel like saying all that. Plus u gotta crawl before you walk
I know, I just didn't feel like saying all that. Plus u gotta crawl before you walk
Back when I was young I did American bench press Mondays like most other people who workout.

Back then the bench was my staple excercise. If I hurt a shoulder or arm I felt it was no need to workout since I couldn't bench, lol.

As a older man there is no more bench Mondays. I realize even with a hurt shoulder, there's a ton of other muscles I can work.
 

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You have no muscle mass and I would guess somewhere in the ballpark of 18+% body fat (skinny doesn't mean low body fat %).

For you, as you are right now, losing more body fat would only lead to this:

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If you want to look good, you need to eat a significant amount of food and workout to build muscle mass.
You're right about the lack of muscle mass, but the body fat estimate is unfair.
 

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the right thing to do is get someone who you can trust to tell you what you should do, if you want more mass to look toned you need to eat something to help that, only lifting will not help like @mrgoodstuff said you have several muscles to work on, and please never skip legs day..., having a good strong leg helps a lot on your general looks as with support for your whole body, on that remember you need to eat to supply your body, not easting like the op is doing is saying lately will hurt you a lot in the long run unless you are really over weight, but even so you need to eat if not you will start to feel weak and you can hurt yourself

and to the op, please go look for help, or you are having some anorexy problem or you will hurt yourself, because your pic don't look good or hot, looks like a skinny boy who only eat garbage food and can't stand for himself
 

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Love is fleeting. I always have a solid loving relationship with every woman I've been with, yet it eventually fades away. It's not about your looks.
 

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and to the op, please go look for help, or you are having some anorexy problem or you will hurt yourself, because your pic don't look good or hot, looks like a skinny boy who only eat garbage food and can't stand for himself
bahaha whats wrong with you lol
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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