"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Can you believe i cant find love while looking like that

R.U.G.

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You're skinny fat, but it can be fixed pretty easily. You need some weight gainer to help build some muscle. Up the protein, like way up. Stop cardio and work with resistance bands and weights only. After workout, have a high quality protein shake such as Nutrabio; one of the purest forms of protein plus BCAAs.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I don't think so. Granted I'm just estimating because he provided no stats/measurements, but if he were much lower in BF%, you would see some definitive vascularity (veins). You would also end up seeing his rib cages and even individual ribs at a much lower BF% than I am guessing at here. He is not that low in BF%. A lot of what you see there is fat, despite how thin he looks.

I mean, some girls go for that. Not the majority, but some.
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For goodness sakes, stop online dating.

It's a fvcking circus not representative of real life. Ditch the internet in general. Stop reading any incel stuff about ""looksmaxing"" or whatever other rubbish. Just the fact that I have even heard of this "incel" stuff is a complete besmirchment.

It's a disgrace, and adds jack sh1t to anyone's life.

Focus on creating and maintaining relationships with good friends and good family instead. The woman stuff sorts itself. Yeah, there's a hell of a load more to this than that, but if you haven't had a few girlfriends yet, then stick to good life fundamentals (that not being scumming around on tinder for a legover with an older woman whilst "looksmaxing").

You basically rarely hear that on the net, because most are introverts who want the computer to do everything for them. I get it, because i'm an introvert also. But my dad used to kick me out of the house when I was playing the mega-drive all day. That's what is really needed.

Tldr? Delete the apps. Make some decent friends.

Why? Online dating is a great way to build pvssy pipeline.
 

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I'm 200 lbs now and have noticed a jump in females looking at me, catching them looking at me. No sixpack, no really much "lifting." I was hovering around 180 a month ago. Vacation gained me 20 lbs, women are taking notice. It's bizarre. Last time I was 200 was at 25-26 years old but I was fat then, now I'm pretty built but not cut at all just thick. I'm 6'2."
 
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