You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
bah,maybe, it looks actually much better in the mirror than on pictureI'd say 70 percent of 18 year olds have this body. You need mass and low body fat if you wanna turn heads.
Ok bigdave.bah,maybe, it looks actually much better in the mirror than on picture
why not just show your muscly bodyYou're obviously ugly then, the boy body is the only thing allowing you awful dates with the whales, freaks, and weirdos you post about here on a weekly basis.
Ok bigdave.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Not to say you couldn't get a 9 with that body, but if you are looking to max out on your physique then u better get lifting those heavy weightsbah,maybe, it looks actually much better in the mirror than on picture
Because I get more play than you, and it's nothing to do with my body.why not just show your muscly body
i think i am somehow limited due to the fact i train at home, when i trained at gym i had more weight and more I weighted more.Because I get more play than you, and it's nothing to do with my body.
You have what I would call a poverty build. Very slim, little body fat, malnourished. Lay off the bread and water.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Squat, deadlift, bent rows, military presses, curls, calf raises, shrugs too. There's alot more muscle on the human body that the core movers used during the bench press.You need to start bench pressing... nothing less then 160 pounds for good size
I know, I just didn't feel like saying all that. Plus u gotta crawl before you walkSquat, deadlift, bent rows, military presses, curls, calf raises, shrugs too. There's alot more muscle on the human body that the core movers used during the bench press.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I know, I just didn't feel like saying all that. Plus u gotta crawl before you walk
Back when I was young I did American bench press Mondays like most other people who workout.I know, I just didn't feel like saying all that. Plus u gotta crawl before you walk
You're right about the lack of muscle mass, but the body fat estimate is unfair.You have no muscle mass and I would guess somewhere in the ballpark of 18+% body fat (skinny doesn't mean low body fat %).
For you, as you are right now, losing more body fat would only lead to this:
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If you want to look good, you need to eat a significant amount of food and workout to build muscle mass.
bahaha whats wrong with you loland to the op, please go look for help, or you are having some anorexy problem or you will hurt yourself, because your pic don't look good or hot, looks like a skinny boy who only eat garbage food and can't stand for himself
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.