You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
bah,maybe, it looks actually much better in the mirror than on pictureI'd say 70 percent of 18 year olds have this body. You need mass and low body fat if you wanna turn heads.
Ok bigdave.bah,maybe, it looks actually much better in the mirror than on picture
why not just show your muscly bodyYou're obviously ugly then, the boy body is the only thing allowing you awful dates with the whales, freaks, and weirdos you post about here on a weekly basis.
Ok bigdave.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Not to say you couldn't get a 9 with that body, but if you are looking to max out on your physique then u better get lifting those heavy weightsbah,maybe, it looks actually much better in the mirror than on picture
Because I get more play than you, and it's nothing to do with my body.why not just show your muscly body
i think i am somehow limited due to the fact i train at home, when i trained at gym i had more weight and more I weighted more.Because I get more play than you, and it's nothing to do with my body.
You have what I would call a poverty build. Very slim, little body fat, malnourished. Lay off the bread and water.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Squat, deadlift, bent rows, military presses, curls, calf raises, shrugs too. There's alot more muscle on the human body that the core movers used during the bench press.You need to start bench pressing... nothing less then 160 pounds for good size
I know, I just didn't feel like saying all that. Plus u gotta crawl before you walkSquat, deadlift, bent rows, military presses, curls, calf raises, shrugs too. There's alot more muscle on the human body that the core movers used during the bench press.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I know, I just didn't feel like saying all that. Plus u gotta crawl before you walk
Back when I was young I did American bench press Mondays like most other people who workout.I know, I just didn't feel like saying all that. Plus u gotta crawl before you walk
You're right about the lack of muscle mass, but the body fat estimate is unfair.You have no muscle mass and I would guess somewhere in the ballpark of 18+% body fat (skinny doesn't mean low body fat %).
For you, as you are right now, losing more body fat would only lead to this:
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If you want to look good, you need to eat a significant amount of food and workout to build muscle mass.
bahaha whats wrong with you loland to the op, please go look for help, or you are having some anorexy problem or you will hurt yourself, because your pic don't look good or hot, looks like a skinny boy who only eat garbage food and can't stand for himself
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.