"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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@LARaiders85 yes I'm starting to realise this you have great advice bro you really do! But I have to show these ladies I'm high value I wont tolerate game playing disrespectful females. I know my worth I'm golden
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Wait, you actually told her how you thrully see the world ?

That's a dangerous game, mate. Never tell common people the redpill knowledge, they will only hate you.
 

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@Crown I just told her I practically don't give a f**k if she leaves I really don't care anymore I'm sick of games players and cheater although this one didn't cheat. Didn't share any knowledge to her. This site is my private lair where I can relax and conversate with other red pillers in privacy and anonymous. I dont know why she just read my message and didn't block me. Maybe she will have doubts I dunno. All I know is I wont be taking her back I'm growing too old for this type of rubbish
 

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@marmel75 She didn't delete me from fb
So what? So what she hasn't also blocked you.

Based on this and your other threads (the ones days between each other) I'm sure we'll get one asking why she still has you on Facebook, even though you don't care.

It's already been said but it's clear you're putting on a false bravado.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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i guess correct way to do this would be 'im sorry dude i dont love you'
'ok'
*removing her from everywhere* not discussing anymore


JFL at discussing with women in 2019
 

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You have yet again started another thread about a single, specific woman. So obviously you are allowing these women to get under your skin.
Marmel75 is correct. You have a pattern that leads these women to run from you and it doesnt take them very long to figure it out.

Let me explain FB- a woman does not care to keep you around on social media after they dump you because they know they can still get your non sexual attention for free. They like keeping you in limbo. If you start stalking and doing things that communicate psycho behaviors they will then block you on everything.

They love having as many friends and followers as they can just like we love having as many plates fvcking us as we can.

Her keeping you around on FB means absolutely nothing. She isnt coming back.
 

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4 years on SS and you're still like this? Oh boy...
He's totally lost bro. Totally clueless. Still saying the same things, only the girl has changed in his story line.

I dont see how people can frequent this board and not improve to some degree. It baffles me.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Amazes me how some of you guys get dumped, but then again, I have never heard these words before:


You should pay attention. Failing to calibrate to the audience is a form of social retardation.
This

All women are going to give you **** eventually, if he cant calibrate his reaction correctly he can blame himself for the end result.
 

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@Glassguy obviously because I deleted it a beta male would of responded sometimes I think people are insanely jealous because I can have a girl wanting to be exclusive in a matter of weeks
 

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I like you bro I really do but you are soooo far gone it's ridiculous, trust me when I tell you she sees right through you're false bravado, if we can see it then she can too.

You been here to long for me to give you any sympathy, tighten up immediately or get use to these things happening to you over and over and over again......
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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