mrgoodstuff
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Fresh red pillees are "insulted" and in "rage" at these control attempts. Me included. The ladies laugh probably. And become aware we are aware.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Break up just happened
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
@LARaiders85 ha man I love hearing from you. Your so on point. Trust me she has sh!t results with men gets beaten up, drug addicts etc: he who laughs last truly laughs best. And I'm gonna be the epitome of that.
niceguytoalphamale
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@mrgoodstuff don't worry she won't be laughing Lulz I'll get the last laugh watch this space
mrgoodstuff
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Just have success with out being stupid. Who cares what she thinks.
niceguytoalphamale
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@LARaiders85 yes I'm starting to realise this you have great advice bro you really do! But I have to show these ladies I'm high value I wont tolerate game playing disrespectful females. I know my worth I'm golden
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
If you know that it doesn't need to be said. Focus on the lesson and not the hurt.
niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
@mrgoodstuff I'm not hurt I feel great I get to keep my whole paycheque to myself lol I don't have to put up with her family that bugs me lol
niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
@Crown I just told her I practically don't give a f**k if she leaves I really don't care anymore I'm sick of games players and cheater although this one didn't cheat. Didn't share any knowledge to her. This site is my private lair where I can relax and conversate with other red pillers in privacy and anonymous. I dont know why she just read my message and didn't block me. Maybe she will have doubts I dunno. All I know is I wont be taking her back I'm growing too old for this type of rubbish
So what? So what she hasn't also blocked you.
Based on this and your other threads (the ones days between each other) I'm sure we'll get one asking why she still has you on Facebook, even though you don't care.
It's already been said but it's clear you're putting on a false bravado.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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You have yet again started another thread about a single, specific woman. So obviously you are allowing these women to get under your skin.
Marmel75 is correct. You have a pattern that leads these women to run from you and it doesnt take them very long to figure it out.
Let me explain FB- a woman does not care to keep you around on social media after they dump you because they know they can still get your non sexual attention for free. They like keeping you in limbo. If you start stalking and doing things that communicate psycho behaviors they will then block you on everything.
They love having as many friends and followers as they can just like we love having as many plates fvcking us as we can.
Her keeping you around on FB means absolutely nothing. She isnt coming back.
Marmel75 is correct. You have a pattern that leads these women to run from you and it doesnt take them very long to figure it out.
Let me explain FB- a woman does not care to keep you around on social media after they dump you because they know they can still get your non sexual attention for free. They like keeping you in limbo. If you start stalking and doing things that communicate psycho behaviors they will then block you on everything.
They love having as many friends and followers as they can just like we love having as many plates fvcking us as we can.
Her keeping you around on FB means absolutely nothing. She isnt coming back.
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He's totally lost bro. Totally clueless. Still saying the same things, only the girl has changed in his story line.
I dont see how people can frequent this board and not improve to some degree. It baffles me.
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Amazes me how some of you guys get dumped, but then again, I have never heard these words before:
You should pay attention. Failing to calibrate to the audience is a form of social retardation.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
lamath
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This
All women are going to give you **** eventually, if he cant calibrate his reaction correctly he can blame himself for the end result.
niceguytoalphamale
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Lol @everyone who said I wasn't alpha... well she messaged me and I deleted it.
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That means nothing.
niceguytoalphamale
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I like you bro I really do but you are soooo far gone it's ridiculous, trust me when I tell you she sees right through you're false bravado, if we can see it then she can too.
You been here to long for me to give you any sympathy, tighten up immediately or get use to these things happening to you over and over and over again......
You been here to long for me to give you any sympathy, tighten up immediately or get use to these things happening to you over and over and over again......
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.