It is ok bro , go bang your cave trolls
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
SargeMaximus
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There’s also such a thing as “defamation of character”.
youre not offended are you?
5'7'' is 1,70m
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
no , I am not .
you are the same guy who was very vocal some time ago that if a girl is playing hard to get that you should next her . And then admitted that he bangs ugly girls , way lower than his smv
why should I be offended ? Your opinions about women and seduction are irrelevant
it is not about finances . It is about how you carry yourself
good style , good posture , good body , looking healthy
then learning how to look a bit taller . Maybe use boots , as they will give you a couple of cm
More in the perceived height
then learning how to be socially savvy
this are all things that are up to you in the vast majority , and will help you in life , not just with girls
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Getting laid is getting laid. Sure she might have a few extra pounds and some love handles, but it's better than rubbing one out.
I can't do a seriously fat woman, but a curvy one is not out of my realm of possibilities. If she has a cute face and decent personality, I can overlook her not being as fit.
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I also said I’ve banged 8’s before but unlike some I don’t claim that’s all I getno , I am not .
you are the same guy who was very vocal some time ago that if a girl is playing hard to get that you should next her . And then admitted that he bangs ugly girls , way lower than his smv
why should I be offended ? Your opinions about women and seduction are irrelevant
8s on your standard , or on a standard that most guys would agree to ?I also said I’ve banged 8’s before but unlike some I don’t claim that’s all I get
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
yeah , it is ok . But the whole topic it is not about this ones as you can imagine
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Most guys I’m sure. Thin, fit, one even had a four pack of abs.
this description does not say anything at all
true , someone has the chore of banging the fatties
very well put . Now I am sorry , but I am not in the mood to continue this banter with you guys . It makes me extremely sad
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What do you want? I posted pictures a while back and you guys claimed they were fake so not much else I can do.
maybe I should take a page out of Pans book and tell you I fvck 1000’s of models all the time.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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I think it is. Pan has no way to know what these girls looked like. So his ugly/fat claims are baseless. EVERY guy (even so called "experts) here has banged some pretty stunning girls. And some not so stunning.yeah , it is ok . But the whole topic it is not about this ones as you can imagine
That is how cold approach is and always has been
If you are not attracted to her (even if you are drunk out of your mind), then you will not bang her.
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Right on cue. Realizing your argument is shaky at best? Move on.
btw I have fvcked Gisele bunchen and Heidi klum years ago. I get women that calibre every day.
taiyuu_otoko
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I wouldn't say attacks are wrong, more that they represent the immaturity and lack of confidence in their opinion of the attacker.
Attacks, insults, putdowns, etc. are almost always externalizations of inner issues.
Since attackers know they couldn't do well in a rational argument, their only hope is inducing enough reactive anger to suck their victims into an insult fight.
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PLM?
yeah , but the issue here was from the get go about people vocalizing bad beliefs . And then when someone challenging them , they start being keyboard jockeysI think it is. Pan has no way to know what these girls looked like. So his ugly/fat claims are baseless. EVERY guy (even so called "experts) here has banged some pretty stunning girls. And some not so stunning.
That is how cold approach is and always has been
If you are not attracted to her (even if you are drunk out of your mind), then you will not bang her.
I understand a lot of things , but I also understand that most of the problems that affect now the sexual marketplace is mostly driven and created by men .
people can choose to do whatever they Want , but in the moment they do something that just perpetuates something that they complain about , they should have the decency of at least not complaining
and that is my main point
also seeing how people reacted to someone calling them whatever for banging fatties or that they are sexpats , only just shows that most likely the person saying whatever was not really very far away from the truth
again velasco if I would say that you are gay for sleeping with fat ugly women , would you get offended ?
we always get defensive of tyings that we are ashamed of and try to hide
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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