It is ok bro , go bang your cave trolls
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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There’s also such a thing as “defamation of character”.
youre not offended are you?
5'7'' is 1,70m
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
no , I am not .
you are the same guy who was very vocal some time ago that if a girl is playing hard to get that you should next her . And then admitted that he bangs ugly girls , way lower than his smv
why should I be offended ? Your opinions about women and seduction are irrelevant
it is not about finances . It is about how you carry yourself
good style , good posture , good body , looking healthy
then learning how to look a bit taller . Maybe use boots , as they will give you a couple of cm
More in the perceived height
then learning how to be socially savvy
this are all things that are up to you in the vast majority , and will help you in life , not just with girls
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Getting laid is getting laid. Sure she might have a few extra pounds and some love handles, but it's better than rubbing one out.
I can't do a seriously fat woman, but a curvy one is not out of my realm of possibilities. If she has a cute face and decent personality, I can overlook her not being as fit.
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I also said I’ve banged 8’s before but unlike some I don’t claim that’s all I getno , I am not .
you are the same guy who was very vocal some time ago that if a girl is playing hard to get that you should next her . And then admitted that he bangs ugly girls , way lower than his smv
why should I be offended ? Your opinions about women and seduction are irrelevant
8s on your standard , or on a standard that most guys would agree to ?I also said I’ve banged 8’s before but unlike some I don’t claim that’s all I get
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
yeah , it is ok . But the whole topic it is not about this ones as you can imagine
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Most guys I’m sure. Thin, fit, one even had a four pack of abs.
this description does not say anything at all
true , someone has the chore of banging the fatties
very well put . Now I am sorry , but I am not in the mood to continue this banter with you guys . It makes me extremely sad
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What do you want? I posted pictures a while back and you guys claimed they were fake so not much else I can do.
maybe I should take a page out of Pans book and tell you I fvck 1000’s of models all the time.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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I think it is. Pan has no way to know what these girls looked like. So his ugly/fat claims are baseless. EVERY guy (even so called "experts) here has banged some pretty stunning girls. And some not so stunning.yeah , it is ok . But the whole topic it is not about this ones as you can imagine
That is how cold approach is and always has been
If you are not attracted to her (even if you are drunk out of your mind), then you will not bang her.
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Right on cue. Realizing your argument is shaky at best? Move on.
btw I have fvcked Gisele bunchen and Heidi klum years ago. I get women that calibre every day.
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I wouldn't say attacks are wrong, more that they represent the immaturity and lack of confidence in their opinion of the attacker.
Attacks, insults, putdowns, etc. are almost always externalizations of inner issues.
Since attackers know they couldn't do well in a rational argument, their only hope is inducing enough reactive anger to suck their victims into an insult fight.
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PLM?
yeah , but the issue here was from the get go about people vocalizing bad beliefs . And then when someone challenging them , they start being keyboard jockeysI think it is. Pan has no way to know what these girls looked like. So his ugly/fat claims are baseless. EVERY guy (even so called "experts) here has banged some pretty stunning girls. And some not so stunning.
That is how cold approach is and always has been
If you are not attracted to her (even if you are drunk out of your mind), then you will not bang her.
I understand a lot of things , but I also understand that most of the problems that affect now the sexual marketplace is mostly driven and created by men .
people can choose to do whatever they Want , but in the moment they do something that just perpetuates something that they complain about , they should have the decency of at least not complaining
and that is my main point
also seeing how people reacted to someone calling them whatever for banging fatties or that they are sexpats , only just shows that most likely the person saying whatever was not really very far away from the truth
again velasco if I would say that you are gay for sleeping with fat ugly women , would you get offended ?
we always get defensive of tyings that we are ashamed of and try to hide
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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