It is ok bro , go bang your cave trolls
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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There’s also such a thing as “defamation of character”.
youre not offended are you?
5'7'' is 1,70m
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
no , I am not .
you are the same guy who was very vocal some time ago that if a girl is playing hard to get that you should next her . And then admitted that he bangs ugly girls , way lower than his smv
why should I be offended ? Your opinions about women and seduction are irrelevant
it is not about finances . It is about how you carry yourself
good style , good posture , good body , looking healthy
then learning how to look a bit taller . Maybe use boots , as they will give you a couple of cm
More in the perceived height
then learning how to be socially savvy
this are all things that are up to you in the vast majority , and will help you in life , not just with girls
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Getting laid is getting laid. Sure she might have a few extra pounds and some love handles, but it's better than rubbing one out.
I can't do a seriously fat woman, but a curvy one is not out of my realm of possibilities. If she has a cute face and decent personality, I can overlook her not being as fit.
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I also said I’ve banged 8’s before but unlike some I don’t claim that’s all I getno , I am not .
you are the same guy who was very vocal some time ago that if a girl is playing hard to get that you should next her . And then admitted that he bangs ugly girls , way lower than his smv
why should I be offended ? Your opinions about women and seduction are irrelevant
8s on your standard , or on a standard that most guys would agree to ?I also said I’ve banged 8’s before but unlike some I don’t claim that’s all I get
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
yeah , it is ok . But the whole topic it is not about this ones as you can imagine
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Most guys I’m sure. Thin, fit, one even had a four pack of abs.
this description does not say anything at all
true , someone has the chore of banging the fatties
very well put . Now I am sorry , but I am not in the mood to continue this banter with you guys . It makes me extremely sad
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What do you want? I posted pictures a while back and you guys claimed they were fake so not much else I can do.
maybe I should take a page out of Pans book and tell you I fvck 1000’s of models all the time.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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I think it is. Pan has no way to know what these girls looked like. So his ugly/fat claims are baseless. EVERY guy (even so called "experts) here has banged some pretty stunning girls. And some not so stunning.yeah , it is ok . But the whole topic it is not about this ones as you can imagine
That is how cold approach is and always has been
If you are not attracted to her (even if you are drunk out of your mind), then you will not bang her.
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Right on cue. Realizing your argument is shaky at best? Move on.
btw I have fvcked Gisele bunchen and Heidi klum years ago. I get women that calibre every day.
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I wouldn't say attacks are wrong, more that they represent the immaturity and lack of confidence in their opinion of the attacker.
Attacks, insults, putdowns, etc. are almost always externalizations of inner issues.
Since attackers know they couldn't do well in a rational argument, their only hope is inducing enough reactive anger to suck their victims into an insult fight.
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yeah , but the issue here was from the get go about people vocalizing bad beliefs . And then when someone challenging them , they start being keyboard jockeysI think it is. Pan has no way to know what these girls looked like. So his ugly/fat claims are baseless. EVERY guy (even so called "experts) here has banged some pretty stunning girls. And some not so stunning.
That is how cold approach is and always has been
If you are not attracted to her (even if you are drunk out of your mind), then you will not bang her.
I understand a lot of things , but I also understand that most of the problems that affect now the sexual marketplace is mostly driven and created by men .
people can choose to do whatever they Want , but in the moment they do something that just perpetuates something that they complain about , they should have the decency of at least not complaining
and that is my main point
also seeing how people reacted to someone calling them whatever for banging fatties or that they are sexpats , only just shows that most likely the person saying whatever was not really very far away from the truth
again velasco if I would say that you are gay for sleeping with fat ugly women , would you get offended ?
we always get defensive of tyings that we are ashamed of and try to hide
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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