article: Want to Become More Attractive to Women? Be Taken.

[MatureDJ]

http://www.playboy.com/articles/attraction-toward-taken-men

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

its called pre-selection. its talked about constantly

does anyone pay attention here?

Sure but, again, the desire to want to be "more attractive to WOMENZ" is the feminine imperative ironically enough.

I am all for self-knowledge, exploring consciousness (dmt, mescaline, shrooms, acid, meditation, yoga, karma sutras, etc), and simply on my path in life. Obv go get babes but, not at the consequences of your much larger goals/dream/life purpose.

Women can come along or get left behind. New girls are turning 18/19/20/21 EVERYDAY son!

Come @ me bro!

 

[zekko]

The article says "men receive an “attractiveness boost” from women when they’re in a committed relationship".
I just want to point out that a lot of guys here say that a man being willing to commit is considered a beta, unattractive thing by females. That women only find men who refuse to commit attractive.
Obviously that is not true.

 

[AJ84]

The article says "men receive an “attractiveness boost” from women when they’re in a committed relationship".
I just want to point out that a lot of guys here say that a man being willing to commit is considered a beta, unattractive thing by females. That women only find men who refuse to commit attractive.
Obviously that is not true.

I think, generally, and with some exceptions, that women are most attracted to the bad boy player type when they are at an age and/or stage in their life where they are not interested in settling down and like relationship drama.
When that stage passes (or if, in some cases) they are attracted to guys who are interested in settling down. When they see that a nice looking guy is married, it's attractive to them because they see a nice looking guy who decided to get married rather than be a f**k boy when he probably could of been a very successful f**k boy lol. Good looking men who commit are seen as very attractive to women.

There's also age/ biological clock ticking/ maturity and not wanting to compete with younger girls just to be some guy's plate.

I think that, eventually, many men and women get tired of the serial dating or hook ups and just want one decent person to share life with, with no crazy drama.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

The article says "men receive an “attractiveness boost” from women when they’re in a committed relationship".
I just want to point out that a lot of guys here say that a man being willing to commit is considered a beta, unattractive thing by females. That women only find men who refuse to commit attractive.
Obviously that is not true.

I think, generally, and with some exceptions, that women are most attracted to the bad boy player type when they are at an age and/or stage in their life where they are not interested in settling down and like relationship drama.
When that stage passes (or if, in some cases) they are attracted to guys who are interested in settling down. When they see that a nice looking guy is married, it's attractive to them because they see a nice looking guy who decided to get married rather than be a f**k boy when he probably could of been a very successful f**k boy lol. Good looking men who commit are seen as very attractive to women.

There's also age/ biological clock ticking/ maturity and not wanting to compete with younger girls just to be some guy's plate.

I think that, eventually, many men and women get tired of the serial dating or hook ups and just want one decent person to share life with, with no crazy drama.

Being taken, looking confident and knowing you get treated like a king yes you will receive an attractiveness boost.

Being taken, treated like **** and being stressed you will receive a attractiveness deficit.

Women are very competitive, but on the flip side are more agreeable to outside affirmation.

 

[Who Dares Win]

Its not about being taken, its about being accepted from a woman.

If you are engaged with the town wh0re who ruined herself with meths, you surely are not gonna score extra points.

If you are engaged with a young pretty sane girl then your value is doubled at their eyes.

I experienced a great boost attending parties with hot girls, when I was one of the many I turned into one of the hot guys the same moment a cutie grabbed my arm and kissed me.

Women generally have a very low individuality outside clothes and being a prima donna, their decisions when it comes of settling are largely influnced from culture and the peer groups.

Thats why no woman ever bought a cheap stock that became gold few months later, they simply dont see any potential in something unless it fits certain general criteria.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Its not about being taken, its about being accepted from a woman.

If you are engaged with the town wh0re who ruined herself with meths, you surely are not gonna score extra points.

If you are engaged with a young pretty sane girl then your value is doubled at their eyes.

I experienced a great boost attending parties with hot girls, when I was one of the many I turned into one of the hot guys the same moment a cutie grabbed my arm and kissed me.

Women generally have a very low individuality outside clothes and being a prima donna, their decisions when it comes of settling are largely influnced from culture and the peer groups.

Thats why no woman ever bought a cheap stock that became gold few months later, they simply dont see any potential in something unless it fits certain general criteria.

Lol on the stock example!

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

does anyone pay attention here?

That was an article in playboy, aimed at who knows who. Maybe a lame writer struggling of a dying magazine struggling for some kind of angle.

Way back in H.S. I realized (as did all my friends) that getting girls was easier if you had a girl.

You get more IOI's when you're with a girl than when you're alone.

This is just plain common sense.

Of course, it's also a classic catch-22, which makes it useless for generation-beta.

 

[lizardking82]

I was in this situation when I was my ex and let me tell you when and how you become more attractive when in a relationship: if you are having good sex and you got a submissive woman whom you're making plans with and you feel sure she's gonna be waiting for you at the end of the day, that is instant abundance.

It is as simple as this: you gain confidence and you gain that DGAF attitude and it's real and it shows because if some girl says no to you, you don't care, you got the amazing sex and the cute girl waiting for you at home. I could have banged half the girl friends of my ex if I wanted to as almost half of them gave me the instant "bang me" eyes (granted they were models). When young girls see their 18 year old friend being handled and dying for a guy a couple of years older and they see the guy is sweet, but manly at the same time and the relationship looks like a piece of chocolate cake, I think they instantly get the butterflies and want that, too. It is the dream of teenagers to have a cool boyfriend and a loving relationship as it is the dream of mid-20 girls to have the stable looking boyfriend that they can post pics with on social media and who's bound to engage/marry them AS it is the dream of the close to 30 woman to have an achieved man by her side who runs a business and owns a house and drives a car.

As @AJ84 said, it is age related, but I am just adding that seeing a complete relationship between two people when you yourself don't have one definitely brings feelings of wanting it and in many cases, girls even hit on the boyfriend and try to take it away from their friend.

When you're involved in something fakin good, other people will be jealous and will want in. It is just normal human behaviour.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

He'll even if you have a not so fine babe as a girlfriend it raises your attractiveness to the others. Because you lose fear of failure plus she polishes your c0ck and your confidence.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

its called pre-selection. its talked about constantly

does anyone pay attention here?

Actually, it's called disqualification.

 

[lizardking82]

Actually, it's called disqualification.

Pre-selection includes disqualification.

 

[marmel75]

The article says "men receive an “attractiveness boost” from women when they’re in a committed relationship".
I just want to point out that a lot of guys here say that a man being willing to commit is considered a beta, unattractive thing by females. That women only find men who refuse to commit attractive.
Obviously that is not true.

There are few if any absolutes

 

[zekko]

once again, i have to stop you. NO ONE EVER said that

You've really never read anything along these lines?:
"No alpha would ever commit because he has too many options".
"No woman is going to want a bird who willingly flies into a cage".

There are few if any absolutes

I agree, I am very distrusting of absolutes. Unfortunately, PUA writers have a tendency to phrase things in absolute terms.

 

[Spaz]

I think that, eventually, many men and women get tired of the serial dating or hook ups and just want one decent person to share life with, with no crazy drama.

True.

Juggling multiple plates is tiresome and honestly at the end of the day you'd just think "what the fvck"....