You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
They are if you want them to be... its all about what makes you feel better,,, and if you can make your marriage last until death do you part then congrats.canadianmetalhead said:" hence the 80% divorce rate and 99% infidelity rates"
ya...those figures are false.
"You don't have to believe me but you will believe your life." - TruthTeller65canadianmetalhead said:haha ok dude, lets see where you got a 99% figure from then. seriously, post a link lets see and i will believe you
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
This is what I want out of a relationship. A cool chick who likes to have fun because I'm all about having fun in life. It is definitely fun to have someone else to share experiences with.Snow Plowman said:Coming from a guy who would never get married, a relationship is actually worth it.
All a relationship is, is a shared experience and shared reality of two people. The energy build up process is even more intense.
It's only recently that I realized how fun a relationship can be.
The thing that makes relationships seem bad is because AFCs go in for needy reasons. Do you honestly think if your a cool guy who knows how to excite women, that she'll leave you for some AFC?
There is a chick with a BF who wants me to fuk her silly. This chick is into me a whole lot but I try not to move it forward.
While learning this I had a chick who was a MLTR. For two years we were together. One of the best relationships
- She wanted to take me to two cruises
- She wanted to take me to puerto rico
- She wanted to share an apt together
- She always was showing her sexual side
- We always have a great vibe
- Insane shared experiences...been to a amusement park, club, many food places.
Relationships are fun but if your an AFC it might not be worth it. I think I've had some of the best relationships even though people around me have had more relationships than me.
Me too... its sad..=(demonic said:I'm not bothering with relationships as their just is'nt any nice,geniune girls around....so all i do is have ons and fbuddies
DonGorgon said:Me too... its sad..=(
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I like this definitionSnow Plowman said:All a relationship is, is a shared experience and shared reality of two people.
Studies have shown that people in long term loving relationships tend to be healthier, happier and live longer than those who aren't.lookyoung said:I think that a guy who has the right girl behind him is a happier guy than a guy who is single. Very few men meet that girl, But for the ones that do I would say its a good thing.
Gee...sounds like a regular fairytale. :crazy:demonic said:I'm not bothering with relationships as their just is'nt any nice,geniune girls around....so all i do is have ons and fbuddies
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.