Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
They are if you want them to be... its all about what makes you feel better,,, and if you can make your marriage last until death do you part then congrats.canadianmetalhead said:" hence the 80% divorce rate and 99% infidelity rates"
ya...those figures are false.
"You don't have to believe me but you will believe your life." - TruthTeller65canadianmetalhead said:haha ok dude, lets see where you got a 99% figure from then. seriously, post a link lets see and i will believe you
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
This is what I want out of a relationship. A cool chick who likes to have fun because I'm all about having fun in life. It is definitely fun to have someone else to share experiences with.Snow Plowman said:Coming from a guy who would never get married, a relationship is actually worth it.
All a relationship is, is a shared experience and shared reality of two people. The energy build up process is even more intense.
It's only recently that I realized how fun a relationship can be.
The thing that makes relationships seem bad is because AFCs go in for needy reasons. Do you honestly think if your a cool guy who knows how to excite women, that she'll leave you for some AFC?
There is a chick with a BF who wants me to fuk her silly. This chick is into me a whole lot but I try not to move it forward.
While learning this I had a chick who was a MLTR. For two years we were together. One of the best relationships
- She wanted to take me to two cruises
- She wanted to take me to puerto rico
- She wanted to share an apt together
- She always was showing her sexual side
- We always have a great vibe
- Insane shared experiences...been to a amusement park, club, many food places.
Relationships are fun but if your an AFC it might not be worth it. I think I've had some of the best relationships even though people around me have had more relationships than me.
Me too... its sad..=(demonic said:I'm not bothering with relationships as their just is'nt any nice,geniune girls around....so all i do is have ons and fbuddies
DonGorgon said:Me too... its sad..=(
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I like this definitionSnow Plowman said:All a relationship is, is a shared experience and shared reality of two people.
Studies have shown that people in long term loving relationships tend to be healthier, happier and live longer than those who aren't.lookyoung said:I think that a guy who has the right girl behind him is a happier guy than a guy who is single. Very few men meet that girl, But for the ones that do I would say its a good thing.
Gee...sounds like a regular fairytale. :crazy:demonic said:I'm not bothering with relationships as their just is'nt any nice,geniune girls around....so all i do is have ons and fbuddies
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.