"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Are relationships worth it?

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they are worth it as long as you get what you want out of them. but when the cons start to outweight the pros, relationships turn to shyt. However most pple don't have the strength to break off at that point...
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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" hence the 80% divorce rate and 99% infidelity rates"

ya...those figures are false.
 
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canadianmetalhead said:
" hence the 80% divorce rate and 99% infidelity rates"

ya...those figures are false.
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They are if you want them to be... its all about what makes you feel better,,, and if you can make your marriage last until death do you part then congrats.
 
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haha ok dude, lets see where you got a 99% figure from then. seriously, post a link lets see and i will believe you
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I'm not bothering with relationships as their just is'nt any nice,geniune girls around....so all i do is have ons and fbuddies
 
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Snow Plowman said:
Coming from a guy who would never get married, a relationship is actually worth it.

All a relationship is, is a shared experience and shared reality of two people. The energy build up process is even more intense.

It's only recently that I realized how fun a relationship can be.

The thing that makes relationships seem bad is because AFCs go in for needy reasons. Do you honestly think if your a cool guy who knows how to excite women, that she'll leave you for some AFC?

There is a chick with a BF who wants me to fuk her silly. This chick is into me a whole lot but I try not to move it forward.

While learning this I had a chick who was a MLTR. For two years we were together. One of the best relationships
- She wanted to take me to two cruises
- She wanted to take me to puerto rico
- She wanted to share an apt together
- She always was showing her sexual side
- We always have a great vibe
- Insane shared experiences...been to a amusement park, club, many food places.

Relationships are fun but if your an AFC it might not be worth it. I think I've had some of the best relationships even though people around me have had more relationships than me.
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This is what I want out of a relationship. A cool chick who likes to have fun because I'm all about having fun in life. It is definitely fun to have someone else to share experiences with.

It is just unfortunate that a lot of guys are AFCs and a lot of girls are psycho these days.
 
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Me too... its sad..=(
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Yeah it is, and i'm not one for trying believe me i have...but they're all slags and mean *****es.

Girls today are too slutty...i mean i want a girl with something other than what's inbetween her legs...sounds really bad but girls don't have much going for them other than looks for me atm.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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A relationship is totally worth it if you like the girl enough.
 
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I think relationships are worth it but you have to find the right girl and realize that it's going to take a lot of work to make it last. If it's only you who wants to make things work, then you have not found the right girl.
 
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Snow Plowman said:
All a relationship is, is a shared experience and shared reality of two people.
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I like this definition
 
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I think that a guy who has the right girl behind him is a happier guy than a guy who is single. Very few men meet that girl, But for the ones that do I would say its a good thing.
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Studies have shown that people in long term loving relationships tend to be healthier, happier and live longer than those who aren't.
 
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demonic said:
I'm not bothering with relationships as their just is'nt any nice,geniune girls around....so all i do is have ons and fbuddies
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Gee...sounds like a regular fairytale. :crazy:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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sad... sad people. people with the idea that relationships are useless and "obsolete" will live and die a sad, lonely death.

it's funny to see people jump one extreme to the other...

girls are the world... <reads sosuave>... then it's proven fact that 99% of girls are whores.

relationships are the amazing... <reads sosuave>... then it's proven fact that 99% of relationships are lies and filled with infidelity.
 
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lol you guys think youll have fbuddies when you're 60 years old? lol. sad and alone.
 
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