"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Are relationships worth it?

drak_ool

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they are worth it as long as you get what you want out of them. but when the cons start to outweight the pros, relationships turn to shyt. However most pple don't have the strength to break off at that point...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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" hence the 80% divorce rate and 99% infidelity rates"

ya...those figures are false.
 

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canadianmetalhead said:
" hence the 80% divorce rate and 99% infidelity rates"

ya...those figures are false.
They are if you want them to be... its all about what makes you feel better,,, and if you can make your marriage last until death do you part then congrats.
 
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haha ok dude, lets see where you got a 99% figure from then. seriously, post a link lets see and i will believe you
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I'm not bothering with relationships as their just is'nt any nice,geniune girls around....so all i do is have ons and fbuddies
 

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Snow Plowman said:
Coming from a guy who would never get married, a relationship is actually worth it.

All a relationship is, is a shared experience and shared reality of two people. The energy build up process is even more intense.

It's only recently that I realized how fun a relationship can be.

The thing that makes relationships seem bad is because AFCs go in for needy reasons. Do you honestly think if your a cool guy who knows how to excite women, that she'll leave you for some AFC?

There is a chick with a BF who wants me to fuk her silly. This chick is into me a whole lot but I try not to move it forward.

While learning this I had a chick who was a MLTR. For two years we were together. One of the best relationships
- She wanted to take me to two cruises
- She wanted to take me to puerto rico
- She wanted to share an apt together
- She always was showing her sexual side
- We always have a great vibe
- Insane shared experiences...been to a amusement park, club, many food places.

Relationships are fun but if your an AFC it might not be worth it. I think I've had some of the best relationships even though people around me have had more relationships than me.
This is what I want out of a relationship. A cool chick who likes to have fun because I'm all about having fun in life. It is definitely fun to have someone else to share experiences with.

It is just unfortunate that a lot of guys are AFCs and a lot of girls are psycho these days.
 

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DonGorgon said:
Me too... its sad..=(

Yeah it is, and i'm not one for trying believe me i have...but they're all slags and mean *****es.

Girls today are too slutty...i mean i want a girl with something other than what's inbetween her legs...sounds really bad but girls don't have much going for them other than looks for me atm.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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A relationship is totally worth it if you like the girl enough.
 

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I think relationships are worth it but you have to find the right girl and realize that it's going to take a lot of work to make it last. If it's only you who wants to make things work, then you have not found the right girl.
 

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Snow Plowman said:
All a relationship is, is a shared experience and shared reality of two people.
I like this definition
 

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lookyoung said:
I think that a guy who has the right girl behind him is a happier guy than a guy who is single. Very few men meet that girl, But for the ones that do I would say its a good thing.
Studies have shown that people in long term loving relationships tend to be healthier, happier and live longer than those who aren't.
 

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demonic said:
I'm not bothering with relationships as their just is'nt any nice,geniune girls around....so all i do is have ons and fbuddies
Gee...sounds like a regular fairytale. :crazy:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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sad... sad people. people with the idea that relationships are useless and "obsolete" will live and die a sad, lonely death.

it's funny to see people jump one extreme to the other...

girls are the world... <reads sosuave>... then it's proven fact that 99% of girls are whores.

relationships are the amazing... <reads sosuave>... then it's proven fact that 99% of relationships are lies and filled with infidelity.
 

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lol you guys think youll have fbuddies when you're 60 years old? lol. sad and alone.
 
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