Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
They are if you want them to be... its all about what makes you feel better,,, and if you can make your marriage last until death do you part then congrats.canadianmetalhead said:" hence the 80% divorce rate and 99% infidelity rates"
ya...those figures are false.
"You don't have to believe me but you will believe your life." - TruthTeller65canadianmetalhead said:haha ok dude, lets see where you got a 99% figure from then. seriously, post a link lets see and i will believe you
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
This is what I want out of a relationship. A cool chick who likes to have fun because I'm all about having fun in life. It is definitely fun to have someone else to share experiences with.Snow Plowman said:Coming from a guy who would never get married, a relationship is actually worth it.
All a relationship is, is a shared experience and shared reality of two people. The energy build up process is even more intense.
It's only recently that I realized how fun a relationship can be.
The thing that makes relationships seem bad is because AFCs go in for needy reasons. Do you honestly think if your a cool guy who knows how to excite women, that she'll leave you for some AFC?
There is a chick with a BF who wants me to fuk her silly. This chick is into me a whole lot but I try not to move it forward.
While learning this I had a chick who was a MLTR. For two years we were together. One of the best relationships
- She wanted to take me to two cruises
- She wanted to take me to puerto rico
- She wanted to share an apt together
- She always was showing her sexual side
- We always have a great vibe
- Insane shared experiences...been to a amusement park, club, many food places.
Relationships are fun but if your an AFC it might not be worth it. I think I've had some of the best relationships even though people around me have had more relationships than me.
Me too... its sad..=(demonic said:I'm not bothering with relationships as their just is'nt any nice,geniune girls around....so all i do is have ons and fbuddies
DonGorgon said:Me too... its sad..=(
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I like this definitionSnow Plowman said:All a relationship is, is a shared experience and shared reality of two people.
Studies have shown that people in long term loving relationships tend to be healthier, happier and live longer than those who aren't.lookyoung said:I think that a guy who has the right girl behind him is a happier guy than a guy who is single. Very few men meet that girl, But for the ones that do I would say its a good thing.
Gee...sounds like a regular fairytale. :crazy:demonic said:I'm not bothering with relationships as their just is'nt any nice,geniune girls around....so all i do is have ons and fbuddies
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.