Exactly. Why would a single 50 yo male with any SMV be pursuing women his own age?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
34 and want nothing to do with women 29+
KindredSpiritzz
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and how many of those women would be deemed attractive?
Not true. I went to a div 3 school. Regular guys dated. There are only so many sports players. There are many more hb 6.5 and up girls than sports players.
Being it was a low level division school these guys were not your 6 foot 6 basketball players all buffed out.
firstbornunicorn
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Don't lie, they won't care. 15 year olds "guess" that I'm 19. They will see what they want to see.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Maybe not fat would be another measurement as I'm not elderly and attracted to them. Maybe 20 percent but then factor in all the fat guys too. If you're 60 and not fat and have money especially you're at an advantage
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I still get hit on by young girls. College girls still dote on me, and I do my best to avoid going any further with the underage girls who I something run into at the events I go to that are multi age. Having a good face, fit body, dressing well, and just being social just helps at all points.
It isn't "lack of experience" that makes a man or boy unconfident. It's the lifetime of brainwashing, oppression, and emotional abuse they've been through.
Six year old boys all over America right now are being told by their teachers, and feminist single mothers, that their existence is "oppressive" to girls, and need to spend their entire lives apologizing for being born male.
And boy scouts allow girls too now
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I have a friend who was over 50 that dated and ended up marrying a girl who was just turning 30. His key was they were both endurance athletes and he was as good or better than she was. Thus they shared an activity together. His age was not an issue.
by the same token she earned her own money and did not expect him to be her bankroll.
by the same token she earned her own money and did not expect him to be her bankroll.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Hamurabimbi
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Almost all my girls have been much younger. As far as where to meet? Anywhere.
2Rocky
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Plinco
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Age is always an issue.
I recommend playing some kind of sport that involves men and women. Volleyball comes to mind. Another place you can meet young women is at college football games.
I always thought the definition was age 50 and over.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Plinco
Master Don Juan
That's why you approach
Plinco
Master Don Juan
I'm guessing you are trying to say that the people there were not as friendly as you expected. I'm I right?
You can't expect people to be nice. The world will beat you down if you let it. You gotta keep going.
Plinco
Master Don Juan
How was the weather?
Plinco
Master Don Juan
Well there you go buddy!
Plinco
Master Don Juan
There's a lot of other venues as well.
There's always many solutions to each problem, sometimes it pays to think a little differently.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.