"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Snag87

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That's why if you're 50 and you are in shape with a decent job you should be focusing on women 10 to 15 years younger.
Exactly. Why would a single 50 yo male with any SMV be pursuing women his own age?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Funny, I went to a D III school, but they were good at sports and our football team usually made the playoffs. Seems like the only guys that were scoring were the good-looking soccer, football players and fraternity duded. My one roommate was on the football team, he was a good looking dude and aggressive. He cleaned up in college. I had a few opportunities, but I was timid and you know how that goes.

Most guys in college are broke and don't have enough life experience to be confident. Hence, I think most men struggle in college with women.
Not true. I went to a div 3 school. Regular guys dated. There are only so many sports players. There are many more hb 6.5 and up girls than sports players.

Being it was a low level division school these guys were not your 6 foot 6 basketball players all buffed out.
 

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Don't lie, they won't care. 15 year olds "guess" that I'm 19. They will see what they want to see.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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and how many of those women would be deemed attractive?
Maybe not fat would be another measurement as I'm not elderly and attracted to them. Maybe 20 percent but then factor in all the fat guys too. If you're 60 and not fat and have money especially you're at an advantage
 

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I still get hit on by young girls. College girls still dote on me, and I do my best to avoid going any further with the underage girls who I something run into at the events I go to that are multi age. Having a good face, fit body, dressing well, and just being social just helps at all points.
 

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Funny, I went to a D III school, but they were good at sports and our football team usually made the playoffs. Seems like the only guys that were scoring were the good-looking soccer, football players and fraternity duded. My one roommate was on the football team, he was a good looking dude and aggressive. He cleaned up in college. I had a few opportunities, but I was timid and you know how that goes.

Most guys in college are broke and don't have enough life experience to be confident. Hence, I think most men struggle in college with women.
It isn't "lack of experience" that makes a man or boy unconfident. It's the lifetime of brainwashing, oppression, and emotional abuse they've been through.

Six year old boys all over America right now are being told by their teachers, and feminist single mothers, that their existence is "oppressive" to girls, and need to spend their entire lives apologizing for being born male.
 

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It isn't "lack of experience" that makes a man or boy unconfident. It's the lifetime of brainwashing and oppression they've been through.

Six year old boys all over America right now are being told by their teachers, and feminist single mothers, that their existence is "oppressive" to girls, and need to spend their entire lives apologizing for being born male.
And boy scouts allow girls too now
 

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I have a friend who was over 50 that dated and ended up marrying a girl who was just turning 30. His key was they were both endurance athletes and he was as good or better than she was. Thus they shared an activity together. His age was not an issue.

by the same token she earned her own money and did not expect him to be her bankroll.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Hello Gentlemen,

A little background about myself and situation. I am 47, Great shape (10%BF) Recently broke up with LTR for 3 years (over a month ago she's a 10/10 26YO). Been trying to see what's going on out there and installed some dating apps and wow what a let down, women my age looks downright disgusting.

My question is will age be an issue for younger women of this generation? Is there any other places to you guys can recommend meeting younger women? with my ex I worked with her for 5 years and got to know her real well before we started dating. Ive been out of the game for a while after my divorce(was married for 15 years), but I don't have issues talking to girls.

Almost all my girls have been much younger. As far as where to meet? Anywhere.
 

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Yep. Yet no one sees anything wrong with it and thinks it's cute. But when it's like a 37 year old liking 21 year old girls people make pervy comments about said person and that he's narcissist etc.

But when did this all start? 80 years ago there was nothing wrong with liking women younger than you. Also, 16, 17 year olds were marrying guys older than them as well.
Get some ***** first then you can talk.
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My question is will age be an issue for younger women of this generation? Is there any other places to you guys can recommend meeting younger women? with my ex I worked with her for 5 years and got to know her real well before we started dating. Ive been out of the game for a while after my divorce(was married for 15 years), but I don't have issues talking to girls.
Age is always an issue.

I recommend playing some kind of sport that involves men and women. Volleyball comes to mind. Another place you can meet young women is at college football games.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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D1 College football games? Unless you are sitting near some attractive women, kind of hard to do.
That's why you approach
 

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I went to a Clemson Auburn game by myself a few years back. I thought the fans would be alot friendlier (southern hospitality and all)
I'm guessing you are trying to say that the people there were not as friendly as you expected. I'm I right?

You can't expect people to be nice. The world will beat you down if you let it. You gotta keep going.
 

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Yes exactly. Got to campus at noon and got hammered drinking an IPA from Charleston at some bar.

I was staying 9 miles outside of Clemson since hotels were price gouging. Couldn't get a car or uber for the life of me.

Walked on a highway back towards my hotel for 4 miles in knee high grass until I finally got an uber ride. Good times
How was the weather?
 

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I would love to go to an MSU vs Ole Miss game at Ole Miss.

Expensive endeavor though, due to hotels price gouging.
I would love to go to an MSU vs Ole Miss game at Ole Miss.

Expensive endeavor though, due to hotels price gouging.
There's a lot of other venues as well.

There's always many solutions to each problem, sometimes it pays to think a little differently.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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