52...have baby with partner?

[nzrod]

Fvck no. When the kid graduates high school you will be 70. Too late and wouldn’t be fair to the kid. Bitches like this are selfish. Sorry you never had a kid. Reason why people in the old days got married in their 20s and started families. You need to start earlier if that is what you want. The chances of having a baby at 45 is also low. Funny how Mother Nature turns off these capabilities after a certain age, almost like your body already knows time is up. It’s wild to think how complex and intelligent our bodies are when you think about it. We are horny af in our teens, when procreation is the most effective. Just the tip could get a girl pregnant. But we try to fvck with Mother Nature and prolong this process. Then resort to science to cheat human evolution. Sorry but this is not a wise idea for various reasons. Get her a dog if she wants to baby something.

Well said

 

[Mazer]

Gross. Move on!

 

[bat soup]

Why not simply wait until you're 100? You're already halfway there.

 

[nzrod]

Why not simply wait until you're 100? You're already halfway there.

How does that help?

 

[ThisIsSparta]

According to your other thread, she is already starting to make your life miserable for "denying" her a baby.
This shiat will only get worse and you will be her go-to person to vent her frustration about not having a kid.

Just get out of this relationship and get an asian woman 10 years younger then her, should be no problem.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

According to your other thread, she is already starting to make your life miserable for "denying" her a baby.
This shiat will only get worse and you will be her go-to person to vent her frustration about not having a kid.

Just get out of this relationship and get an asian woman 10 years younger then her, should be no problem.

Yeah that's what I asked in the other thread...if he had told her no in regard to this. Most men don't realize that women can hold grudges with the best of them and a lot of their bad behavior can be linked to something they are mad or upset about from months or even years ago.

Guys usually don't make that connection, they usually only consider it in a vacuum.

 

[SW15]

I can't imagine why a 52 year old guy would want a kid at this point in life. If you're 52, enjoy the kids you already have or keep enjoying the childless lifestyle.

I made a point earlier that I think it's best for guys to be done with kids by 35, maybe 36-37 at the latest to avoid kids impacting retirement plans.

If a man wants kids at 52, he needs a woman 20 years younger.

 

[bat soup]

How does that help?

It saves you money.

 

[nzrod]

According to your other thread, she is already starting to make your life miserable for "denying" her a baby.
This shiat will only get worse and you will be her go-to person to vent her frustration about not having a kid.

Just get out of this relationship and get an asian woman 10 years younger then her, should be no problem.

Thanks. An Asian woman 10 years younger than her will likely still want a kid. Less chance of birth defects but still not something I am really wanting (a kid). So I think ... perhaps a single Mum is OK - they have their baby need met already? Then I recall Rollo Tomassi's exhortations to avoid single Mums. Pros and cons.

 

[nzrod]

I can't imagine why a 52 year old guy would want a kid at this point in life. ...

Answer: To keep the woman.

done with kids by 35, maybe 36-37 at the latest to avoid kids impacting retirement plans.

That is my main concern - still needing to make money (probably) at age 70 when they are about to go to college. This isn't necessarily the case if I do well financially for the next five years or so. She has a mortgage free house in Singapore which can help.

 

[SW15]

Answer: To keep the woman.

Not worth attempting to keep if it comes to that. That line of thinking leads to a postponement of the inevitable. Many struggling couples have a baby as a last ditch attempt to stay together. It doesn't work.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

I can't imagine why a 52 year old guy would want a kid at this point in life. If you're 52, enjoy the kids you already have or keep enjoying the childless lifestyle.

I made a point earlier that I think it's best for guys to be done with kids by 35, maybe 36-37 at the latest to avoid kids impacting retirement plans.

If a man wants kids at 52, he needs a woman 20 years younger.

He is afraid of losing access to sex.

 

[SW15]

He is afraid of losing access to sex.

No man can operate with that sort of scarcity mentality. It's not healthy at all.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Thanks. An Asian woman 10 years younger than her will likely still want a kid. Less chance of birth defects but still not something I am really wanting (a kid). So I think ... perhaps a single Mum is OK - they have their baby need met already? Then I recall Rollo Tomassi's exhortations to avoid single Mums. Pros and cons.

At your age and the age group you are likely to date it shouldn't be hard to find women with grown children.

Nobody is the gospel on dating. Think for yourself. Rollo is not going to be there to walk you through every situation that occurs and there is no guarantee that his thoughts process when dating even resembles yours if you actually talked with him in person.

 

[bat soup]

Thanks. An Asian woman 10 years younger than her will likely still want a kid. Less chance of birth defects but still not something I am really wanting (a kid). So I think ... perhaps a single Mum is OK - they have their baby need met already? Then I recall Rollo Tomassi's exhortations to avoid single Mums. Pros and cons.

The problem is that it's not your kid. The other guy is still floating around somewhere and may come back into the picture at some point. If you ever fall out with the girl, she can move on to the next guy and take her kid with her. You have zero rights and yet you'll still be expected to fork out to pay for the situation.

 

[nzrod]

No man can operate with that sort of scarcity mentality. It's not healthy at all.

Fair. The thing is, I live in a city with a total lack of attractive single babes over the age of 40 (I don't rate my chances for ladies below 40 when I am 52). The obesity rate is massive. My slim attractive lady moved from Singapore to be with me.

 

[nzrod]

At your age and the age group you are likely to date it shouldn't be hard to find women with grown children.

Nobody is the gospel on dating. Think for yourself. Rollo is not going to be there to walk you through every situation that occurs and there is no guarantee that his thoughts process when dating even resembles yours if you actually talked with him in person.

Good advice, also the advice from Bat Soup above.

 

[RickTheToad]

Hi gentlemen
I have just turned 52 and my 45.5 year old Asian girlfriend wants to have a baby. We live together. She had two miscarriages when she was married 8 years ago...and is childless. She was devastated and still wants a kid (marriage ended as he cheated).

I feel if I dont, the relationship might not last. She may a) subconsciously resent me for all time or b) subconsciously seek a man who will, while being with me. I dont think she will consciously do a or b as she is very Christian with clear morals but she is also a human ...so subconsciously she may.

If I have a kid I will be about 71 when the child is 18.

What are your thoughts please?

Did your cvm dumpster freeze her eggs? If not, she's sh!t out of luck.

 

[nzrod]

" cvm dumpster" is a bit disrespectful mate. No, she didn't.

 

[RickTheToad]

" cvm dumpster" is a bit disrespectful mate. No, she didn't.

It's a joke dude.

All kidding aside, you care for her, it evident, and that is fine. However, if you have no interest in bringing in a child in this world, walk away. It's painful, I am sure, but no reason in going through even more pain when she some how gets you to try and she's still unsuccessful. It's very unlikely that she has any viable eggs left at 45/46 without any frozen eggs. It's a lost cause for her, as that ship has sailed. Be careful she doesn't try to rope you into adopting one.

I'm in the medical field, so I know what I am talking about.