"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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3 years. Still not over her

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Stop that girl sh1t.
Hahaha, it's because you miss a woman talking to you like that and I do it better too. Admit it. You just don't wanna feel like a fag like me.

@AttackFormation I'll treat you like woman if you want me to
You won't even fvck me! you can't treat me right.

Maybe I'm sick? and I need to act out the real dynamic of drama and seduction with someone if I don't have a woman to do it with who understands me. But you don't care about a b!tch. You just take what you want from me like a cheap wh0re.
 
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Hahaha, it's because you miss a woman talking to you like that and I do it better too. Admit it. You just don't wanna feel like a fag like me.



You won't even fvck me! you can't treat me right.

Maybe I'm sick? and I need to act out the real dynamic of drama and seduction with someone if I don't have a woman to do it with who understands me. But you don't care about a b!tch. You just take what you want from me like a cheap wh0re.
No, my penis is too big. I'd probably kill you!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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He is 53 years old and you are giving him this advice?




That's a solid catch-22.



You don't sound like a nearcel so not likely.



...which means you are not nearcel like the other OP.



You don't sound at all like the other OP. You can build up a tolerance because you have enough attraction out there to begin with. If it's too "once in a blue moon" then you are going to bond because you think you are getting a break from inceldom and the out of league lady is doing you a favour.
Never to old to learn new tricks and improve one's self.
 

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I clicked on this thread and it took me right to your post.

It is a beta mindset, but I find it's a difficult one to overcome.

If I spend enough time around a woman, I start to develop feelings for her. That is, I care about her well-being.

I think this is part of being a man. It's engrained in our core.

I broke up with my ex, and I'm pretty sure she hates me now, but if she called me tomorrow needing help with something, I'd do it. Not because I want anything in return, but because I'll always care about her. Because of the closeness we shared.
Being in a beta mindset and helping a person who's down is not the same thing. A dude can be a strong man, but have a gentle empathic heart for people who are in dire straits. One can also be an ass-hole, but still help a person in need; if they want to. However, that depends on how she treated you during your relationship with her. If she was in the wrong, but apologized, perhaps. Depends on the situation.
 

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**** man I don't know how you feel. I just wanna *** on different girls faces and jerk of to porn.
 
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