Master Don Juan
- Mar 13, 2008
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You're the prince of editing your posts, so I'll give you a minute.There's a myth in the manosphere that men are promiscuous and polygamous and women are chaste and monogamous. Because this obviously clashes against the reality, especially to anyone who has actually studied biology, the way the narrative handles it is to say that monogamous men are beta/fools/cucks and that promiscuous women are corrupted/damaged. But the narrative is a stupid idea, and a lie. First, it is not true enough even on a general level. Second, "men" and "women" vary too much on an individual basis to define any single sexual strategy for each gender. Some men are more or less inclined to monogamy, and the same for women. This is something that can be observed in other species too. There are both biological and practical reasons why mating strategies differ.
Don't let these uneducated fools and cluster Bs tell you who you are supposed to be. Some of us feel a need to be promiscuous more to keep up in the race than because that's what we are really looking for, especially if you take the validation itself out of the picture.
Promiscuous, unstable people are likely to form a disproportionate amount of everyone's experience, because they are the ones who are going around from person to person imitating what those people are longing for, and it gets worse if the prey is codependent. This is especially true if those promiscuous people are particularly attractive, and so the preferred choice above the others available to the prey.
Me, I don't have an answer to your question of how you could ever wife a woman because I am pondering the same thing. I think the answer is probably two more questions:
1 - Can you tell if a woman really desires and cares about you or is just pretending to?
2 - Are you able to accept change?
If you say yes to both, I assume you would at least be well equipped.