AttackFormation
Master Don Juan
You're so mean to me... am I really a bad girl?Way to take what I said and make it way more wordy.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You're so mean to me... am I really a bad girl?Way to take what I said and make it way more wordy.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Stop that girl sh1t.You're so mean to me... am I really a bad girl?
Hahaha, it's because you miss a woman talking to you like that and I do it better too. Admit it. You just don't wanna feel like a fag like me.Stop that girl sh1t.
You won't even fvck me! you can't treat me right.@AttackFormation I'll treat you like woman if you want me to
No, my penis is too big. I'd probably kill you!Hahaha, it's because you miss a woman talking to you like that and I do it better too. Admit it. You just don't wanna feel like a fag like me.
You won't even fvck me! you can't treat me right.
Maybe I'm sick? and I need to act out the real dynamic of drama and seduction with someone if I don't have a woman to do it with who understands me. But you don't care about a b!tch. You just take what you want from me like a cheap wh0re.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Never to old to learn new tricks and improve one's self.He is 53 years old and you are giving him this advice?
That's a solid catch-22.
You don't sound like a nearcel so not likely.
...which means you are not nearcel like the other OP.
You don't sound at all like the other OP. You can build up a tolerance because you have enough attraction out there to begin with. If it's too "once in a blue moon" then you are going to bond because you think you are getting a break from inceldom and the out of league lady is doing you a favour.
Being in a beta mindset and helping a person who's down is not the same thing. A dude can be a strong man, but have a gentle empathic heart for people who are in dire straits. One can also be an ass-hole, but still help a person in need; if they want to. However, that depends on how she treated you during your relationship with her. If she was in the wrong, but apologized, perhaps. Depends on the situation.I clicked on this thread and it took me right to your post.
It is a beta mindset, but I find it's a difficult one to overcome.
If I spend enough time around a woman, I start to develop feelings for her. That is, I care about her well-being.
I think this is part of being a man. It's engrained in our core.
I broke up with my ex, and I'm pretty sure she hates me now, but if she called me tomorrow needing help with something, I'd do it. Not because I want anything in return, but because I'll always care about her. Because of the closeness we shared.