AttackFormation
Master Don Juan
You're so mean to me... am I really a bad girl?Way to take what I said and make it way more wordy.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You're so mean to me... am I really a bad girl?Way to take what I said and make it way more wordy.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Stop that girl sh1t.You're so mean to me... am I really a bad girl?
Hahaha, it's because you miss a woman talking to you like that and I do it better too. Admit it. You just don't wanna feel like a fag like me.Stop that girl sh1t.
You won't even fvck me! you can't treat me right.@AttackFormation I'll treat you like woman if you want me to
No, my penis is too big. I'd probably kill you!Hahaha, it's because you miss a woman talking to you like that and I do it better too. Admit it. You just don't wanna feel like a fag like me.
You won't even fvck me! you can't treat me right.
Maybe I'm sick? and I need to act out the real dynamic of drama and seduction with someone if I don't have a woman to do it with who understands me. But you don't care about a b!tch. You just take what you want from me like a cheap wh0re.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Never to old to learn new tricks and improve one's self.He is 53 years old and you are giving him this advice?
That's a solid catch-22.
You don't sound like a nearcel so not likely.
...which means you are not nearcel like the other OP.
You don't sound at all like the other OP. You can build up a tolerance because you have enough attraction out there to begin with. If it's too "once in a blue moon" then you are going to bond because you think you are getting a break from inceldom and the out of league lady is doing you a favour.
Being in a beta mindset and helping a person who's down is not the same thing. A dude can be a strong man, but have a gentle empathic heart for people who are in dire straits. One can also be an ass-hole, but still help a person in need; if they want to. However, that depends on how she treated you during your relationship with her. If she was in the wrong, but apologized, perhaps. Depends on the situation.I clicked on this thread and it took me right to your post.
It is a beta mindset, but I find it's a difficult one to overcome.
If I spend enough time around a woman, I start to develop feelings for her. That is, I care about her well-being.
I think this is part of being a man. It's engrained in our core.
I broke up with my ex, and I'm pretty sure she hates me now, but if she called me tomorrow needing help with something, I'd do it. Not because I want anything in return, but because I'll always care about her. Because of the closeness we shared.