Solomon
Master Don Juan
agreed im older now and 90% of the content I watch is either finance related or related to spiritualty (Jesus) women aren't a prioty anymore in my life as in my 20s and early 30s
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
2009-2014 era SoSuave'rs?
- Thread starter Crissco
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Serenity
Moderator
I have also noticed there are more posts now that don't appeal to me. There's less "hey, I went out, did this and this happened" and more "hey, look at this thing women do nowadays". Feels like innovation is dead and whenever someone tries to come up with something there's an army of pessimistic theoretical thinkers waiting in line to smite it. I see a lot of guys analyzing female behavior with limited experience at best or purely theoretically at worst.
It has been my attitude ever since I joined as a clueless guy looking for solutions that I cannot change the world, but I hold all the power to change myaelf in way that I can navigate the world with ease. Making a collaborative wiki of negative female behavior on this forum is of very limited use, it can only be used to identify and avoid these women, it says nothing about how to relate to this in order to get what we seek.
I joined with the intention of ultimately finding a girlfriend, but I was met with "bruh, there's no point, spin plates forever". Sure, but that's not what I wanted... I wanted a girlfriend, possibly a wife, I wanted kids, I wanted to make a family and I want to know how to do so in the most positive way possible. There was only crickets, I walked a lonely and difficult path to figure that one out.
I don't care what this or that woman someone read about on the internet did, I care about how I can relate to the world to get what I desire in the best possible way. I don't want to hear the million ways it doesn't work, I only care about the ways it does work.