Solomon
Master Don Juan
agreed im older now and 90% of the content I watch is either finance related or related to spiritualty (Jesus) women aren't a prioty anymore in my life as in my 20s and early 30s
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
2009-2014 era SoSuave'rs?
- Thread starter Crissco
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Serenity
Moderator
I have also noticed there are more posts now that don't appeal to me. There's less "hey, I went out, did this and this happened" and more "hey, look at this thing women do nowadays". Feels like innovation is dead and whenever someone tries to come up with something there's an army of pessimistic theoretical thinkers waiting in line to smite it. I see a lot of guys analyzing female behavior with limited experience at best or purely theoretically at worst.
It has been my attitude ever since I joined as a clueless guy looking for solutions that I cannot change the world, but I hold all the power to change myaelf in way that I can navigate the world with ease. Making a collaborative wiki of negative female behavior on this forum is of very limited use, it can only be used to identify and avoid these women, it says nothing about how to relate to this in order to get what we seek.
I joined with the intention of ultimately finding a girlfriend, but I was met with "bruh, there's no point, spin plates forever". Sure, but that's not what I wanted... I wanted a girlfriend, possibly a wife, I wanted kids, I wanted to make a family and I want to know how to do so in the most positive way possible. There was only crickets, I walked a lonely and difficult path to figure that one out.
I don't care what this or that woman someone read about on the internet did, I care about how I can relate to the world to get what I desire in the best possible way. I don't want to hear the million ways it doesn't work, I only care about the ways it does work.