Solomon
Master Don Juan
agreed im older now and 90% of the content I watch is either finance related or related to spiritualty (Jesus) women aren't a prioty anymore in my life as in my 20s and early 30s
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
2009-2014 era SoSuave'rs?
- Thread starter Crissco
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Serenity
Moderator
I have also noticed there are more posts now that don't appeal to me. There's less "hey, I went out, did this and this happened" and more "hey, look at this thing women do nowadays". Feels like innovation is dead and whenever someone tries to come up with something there's an army of pessimistic theoretical thinkers waiting in line to smite it. I see a lot of guys analyzing female behavior with limited experience at best or purely theoretically at worst.
It has been my attitude ever since I joined as a clueless guy looking for solutions that I cannot change the world, but I hold all the power to change myaelf in way that I can navigate the world with ease. Making a collaborative wiki of negative female behavior on this forum is of very limited use, it can only be used to identify and avoid these women, it says nothing about how to relate to this in order to get what we seek.
I joined with the intention of ultimately finding a girlfriend, but I was met with "bruh, there's no point, spin plates forever". Sure, but that's not what I wanted... I wanted a girlfriend, possibly a wife, I wanted kids, I wanted to make a family and I want to know how to do so in the most positive way possible. There was only crickets, I walked a lonely and difficult path to figure that one out.
I don't care what this or that woman someone read about on the internet did, I care about how I can relate to the world to get what I desire in the best possible way. I don't want to hear the million ways it doesn't work, I only care about the ways it does work.