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Hey guys, I'm reading up on Ross Jeffrie's material, about anchoring feelings. Does this stuff really work? Here's an example I found: "So what would it be like if there was this person, who you felt so attracted to, and you could start to feel this warm flush starting to spread right...

Hi all, I'm looking for movie suggestions that have good conversations between a guy and girl that go well, not necessarily interested in movies that show a dj in action - there's enough of them listed on this site. More interested in individual conversations - I always have trouble with...

Hey guys, I read that an approach should last for a minimum of 20 mins in the attraction stage. And that I shouldn't ask personal questions during this time. So what the heck do you say if you can't ask personal questions?

I was waiting at the food service line, and opened a girl beside me. A 2 or 3 minute convo ensued which went really well. She was visiting a friend while she was in the area. I was thinking I would find out where she was sitting and go say hello later, but it was my turn to be served. So I...

Hi all, When a situation is perfect or an opportunity happens, I can usually say something. So this weekend I'm at the bar and I turn to my left, nice looking girl so I say 'hey hows your night going?'. Her response was short but at least I opened. Then a while later I'm talking to a female...

Hi all, I learn best by 'seeing' an interaction. Like today there was a girl on the train. Guy next to her was chatting away to her and she was laughing and smiling the whole time - and I really wanted to know what he was saying and obviously how he was saying it that was getting that...

Hi all, I have a few issues with the conversation unless the girl approaches me (and how often does that happen in a club). I'll see an attractive girl and say something like 'hey ladies, hows your night going?' I'm actually gonna try along the lines of 'hey ladies, whats happening?'...

Hey all, I'm curious. Those of you that have gone from shy and bad with women to confident and good (inner game though), what did you actually do to overcome your fear and end up where you are now? Just want to get some ideas on what to do to improve myself, especially when relating to...

I was at a nightclub/bar the other weekend for a guys bday party. I went with about 4 female friends - I'm quite shy when it comes to a bunch of people I don't know so spent some time goofing around with my friends, plus a few of the guys I met chatted to me every now and then. Then this girl...

Hi all, Read a post about being in-state so basically everything is easy and smooth. What exactly is in-state and how do I achieve this, or at least what can I do to head towards being in-state? I actually find that I am usually in-state at things like music festivals. The last one I made...

Hey all, I'm working on my body language to show more confidence. Like not having my body symmetrical by having one foot at a different angle as this shows 'vulnerability' and leaving my hands at my side and not fidgeting. I'm curious. What about when you don't have space to spread out...

Hey guys, I know this isn't technically a pickup question, but I'm looking for your experiences in the conversation side of things. I don't have the confidence or ability to 'pickup' girls at a bar/nightclub, but these events are a totally different situation. How do you get yourself...

Hey guys, I'm trying to get a new look, something that will impress the ladies but can also be worn to work etc. I'm not into specific brands or high priced stuff. I just recently bought a pair of charcoal pinstripe jeans, green jacquard shirt (has a shimmering pattern) with double cuffs...

Hey all, Anyone know of any good self hypnosis or subliminal mp3s that can be helpful in overcoming barriers? The problem is that I was extremely shy across my whole life not just women, and over the last 5 years I've slowly but surely picked away at the problems and now all that's left is...

Hi all, I'm looking for resources, preferably video and audio that help to make small changes in my life. Don't get me wrong, I have friends and I head out to a mates place every friday for pool and poker and sometimes head out on saturdays. But I have small fears such as: 1. I get too...

Hey all, learning to build my confidence and approach more. I can hold a decent conversation so long as the girl is interesting and offers enough 'hooks' to keep the momentum going. Anyway, this morning I got off the train and saw this average looking girl just ahead of me. As I came in...

Hey all, This morning I got off the train and asked a reasonably attractive girl how she was doing. She gave me a look, it wasn't a 'f&*k off' look but more like she didn't want to be bothered. She said good and I asked if she had a big night. Same short response so I just kept walking...

Hey all, I'll set the scene. you're at a bus/train station and you open a girl. First, what do you open with that gets the best response? If there's something unique in the environment I'll use that, otherwise just say hello. Then, what do you talk about? I suck when it comes to coming up...

Hey guys, Not really into 'picking up' chicks but want to learn how to be flirty without ruining a potential friendship. I met this girl off the net in a group and we really hit it off, good conversation a few good laughs. Its been about 2 weeks. Anyway we exchanged numbers and we're having a...

Hey all, I want to improve my inner game/confidence, not so much to 'pick up' but just to have the confidence/ability/knowledge to strike up a conversation with a hottie. Also, does anyone know of any good info from women about what they are looking for? Like clothes, looks, tips, etc.