"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Movies that have goot attraction-building convos?

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Hi all,

I'm looking for movie suggestions that have good conversations between a guy and girl that go well, not necessarily interested in movies that show a dj in action - there's enough of them listed on this site.

More interested in individual conversations - I always have trouble with conversations and this isn't something based on my confidence or self-esteem but more on an actual lack of knowledge on what to talk about. So looking for some good examples.

I know of the 50 first dates movie where he has to talk to her constantly. but I find a lot of conversations in movies are between people that already know each other, or they barely show any of hte conversation.

All suggestions welcome.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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War Against Betaism

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James Bond Casino Royale. The scene where Bond seduces Alex Dimitrios's wife. Bond wins Dimitrio's Aston Martin at a poker game and rolls up to pick up Solange Dimitrio whom to her surprise is James Bond instead of her husband. Bond offers her a ride anyways, she replies "I'm sorry I'm not that cruel," and as she walks away, Bond says "Perhaps you're just out of practice." He keeps good eye contact with her the whole time. Later on they're seen making out.

This is the best example of David DeAngelo's ****y and funny concept. Very ****y but also funny.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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